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Wow, you seem like a saint.

(Not being sarcastic at all, though I can be like that on this board at times.)

Well, it's good to get some optimism in this board once in a while.

Showers and brushed teeth is a must if he wants me to kiss him.

Apples to oranges
. . . To further this, if you can't drive, and can't network... you will be very limited as to what kind of jobs you can get.. which limits how much money you can make.. which makes it impossible to MOVE and improve your situation.

f**k this sh**. I don't need to be more assertive, I don't need to take baths, I don't "need to get out of my comfort and socialize".

I don't need to buy high priced clothes, cologne, etc, just to impress f***ing people that never wanted anything to do with me in the first place. My money is better spent on things I enjoy.

I'm tired of the BS advice that people (male and female) give out here day in and day out. "Be confident and assertive" "Don't be bitter" "Stop being such a pessimist" "work on your social skills", as if everyone on the spectrum is capable of it.

I hate clubs and bars, I don't don't know of any anime/video game clubs in my area. Even if there were any, do any of you really think the people in there will accept a stinky, stupid, slow, and special ed person such as myself? How many of them would take out the time to actually talk and socialize with me, hell would they even invite me in?

I'm also tired of people saying that it's my fault that I'm alone, like I'm somewhat responsible for not having any friends and never dated.

Tell me, what attractive woman would go out with someone who is: ugly, has mild mental problems, slow, talks with a somewhat mild slur, (you people talk making good first impression, how is that possible for me when as soon as I open my mouth, people already think I'm not all there) poor, and a special ed kid that never made it pass 9th grade.

What group of men would want someone like me hanging around them when they're trying to talk to/pick up women.

I'm almost 26 and I can barely take care of myself. I am a bum and a pathetic loser. I'm not making excuses, these are irrefutable facts, and it's very frustrating when the people here (who actually think they know me better than myself) state otherwise.

I was born without a chance, it's unfair but it's true. I'm going to be a along forever, and there's nothing I can do (short of a miracle) to change that.

...at least you'll be able to pick at the fungus on your body while you wonder why no one wants to be around you.

Not to be a dick or anything, but you shouldn't blame anyone but yourself for your problems.

If you were to meet a girl with similar drawbacks, would you date her? You still have the oportunity to get at high school equivalency certificate at your age and showers don't have to take more than three minutes a day. If it's any consolation, there are even people with Down's or fragile X who manage to get a G.E.D.

If you're an American, you're born with plenty of chances; in fact, the only ones on the western hemisphere with more oportunities are the Canadians.

At the very least have someone bathe you. .

I think your situation can change, but it's going to be a whole different paradigm than what most folks expect. Dumping the dominant framework would be the first step. IMHO

It's not my fault that I'm ugly, slow, and half-mentally retarded. I'm not to blame for the way I was born.

Yeah this is pretty funny because I actually have fungi (at least that's what I think it is) on me, On my back, on the inside of thigh, and on my upper shoulder.

It's been there for a few years. It hasn't bothered me all that much though.