Please tell me if this is creepy?

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I am a guy and this guy scares me. Not only that, he sounds extremely arrogant too. Who cares if he was drunk.

He sounds like my ex-boyfriend. The man would put me on a pedestal, just to knock me down. He was also absolutely psychotic. He was diagnosed with, and had a lot of mental problems. I'm just glad I got away before he started being physically abusive. He was very emotionally abusive, and tried to make me responsible for keeping him in line. Not my job.

Creepy as hell...

If there is an option there to either delete him or block him, do it as soon as possible...

Be glad you found out he is wacko now and not after you met him.

He sounds as if he's just assuming poetic license to use hyperbole, to be honest.
That being said, I believe heartily in trusting your own tuition-
the stakes are too high not to.

You're not being oversensitive at all.

I know ex-cons who have turned themselves around and would never even think those things, let alone say them.

Growing up from a rough background does not exucse this kind of crap - you don't see me walking around saying things like that and I certainly don't think things like that, and I didn't grow up in first world countries either.

He is essentially saying he would not do those things for his own self-preservation and because of a fear of the consequences - not because he has ethical standards that he holds himself to. That is a dangerous situation - if he ever figured out a way to avoid the consequences.....?

Get away from him while you still can.

This guys sounds like a psychopath! He probably went through some type of abuse when he was younger or he must have been raised in poverty. A child growing up with middle-class parents usually does not get to see violence in the streets of Detroit... That should be your first red flag.

Secondly, his speech is not very coherent, so substance abuse can be in play here. Still, even the Romans had a saying "in vino veritas", meaning when you are drunk, your true nature will show. The fact that he might have been drunk or on drugs when typing this message must not serve as an excuse for the creepy contents. Imagine if you start a real relationship with this guy and he gets drunk or high... Do you think you will feel safe with him after having read this?

Thirdly, he is talking about not taking out certain people... Doesn't that say enough? He apparently seems to have a problem with people that he thinks are "morons". Again, if you were to start a relationship with him, how do you know for sure that he won't classify you under "morons" at some point in his book? He doesn't say what he understands under "morons" other than people that lived sheltered lives in the suburbs...

Seriously, this guy is bad news. If I were you, I wouldn't respond to this or any message he will send you. You haven't met him and you probably haven't developed feelings for him, so just forget about it. If he sends these types of messages to other people as well (which he definitely will), they will realize that he is creepy as well, so don't worry about that.

Run away as fast as you can from the looks of it he has a lot of hate built up inside him and the possibility of him being abusive and violent.

If you have to wonder "is this creepy"
its creepy

That's scary.
Freaked out just reading it.

Um, yes. Definitely very creepy - run!

I'd back off fast. How much personal information have you given him?

To me he sounds like he has a narcissistic personality and he seems to need some heavy anger management. I would not meet up with him.

Ignore the message, block the user. What a creep!