the incident and the password

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I actually considered writing that he was ignorant, but I am not sold on it. In any case, ignorance often has his basis in misunderstanding, so maybe we are both right.

You mentioned having been in an open relationship with someone in the past, are you in an open relationship with your current partner?

Typically an open relationship involves being open and honest about other people who are are talking to or are interested in. He has a right to privacy (as do you) but you do have the right to know what's going on, especially when it comes to other people.

Flirting is one thing, treating another girl the same way he does to you is wrong. I would also be upset.

The whole Flirting others thing while being in relationship is wrong.


Here I said it, call me a close minded middle-eastern.

You close minded middle-eastern!

Next...

Dammit!! He beat me to it. I agree though, I don't want my GR/Fiancee/Wife flirting with other men. Women on the other hand...

It is easy to delete and move incriminating information when you know someone will be checking.

Honestly, the password is a barrier. A barrier in a relationship is never a good sign. If he had the password before this all started it would be one thing. But ask him, if he has nothing to hide, why does he need a password?

The whole thing seems suspicious to me. Flirting with other girls while in the same ROOM as you, while you're talking to him, is a serious thing.

Ya, thats a real dick move, even for an "open" relationship

^^ all of this


WOW! That was pretty bold of him. I'd have a problem with that. I don't know if I could get past it either. And I agree that if he had nothing to hide he wouldn't need a password.

He could easily turn this on you and say it was because of your snooping-which while I do agree wasn't right. If you had found nothing you would have felt bad for doing so but since you found something you kind of feel justified.