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You're right: it is different for different people. For a lot of people, though, it's either not enough to have casual sex or sex has to be in the right context and with the right person. That's why it's still a massive problem for some people to find a relationship, despite being female (still not sure that it's a given females can get sex) and despite in some cases having some offers of dates or sex. You don't have to feel the same way. But you could recognise that some people are still alone for that reason. They can't change their desires, so they're still lonely for the right kind of relationship.

No one's saying it's not bad for you to not be able to get either, if that's the case you find yourself in. But that doesn't mean that people in a slightly different situation can't feel bad also. If casual sex simply isn't something you desire, then it doesn't make you feel happier knowing that perhaps you could get it.

Sex is a need on the species level. On the individual level, it's all caught up in emotional and social issues. That can override any biological drive for a lot of people, which is why being able to fulfil that need with anyone/anything just isn't a satisfying solution, and attempting sex in the wrong circumstances really can make people feel worse, not better. That may not be the case for you; it is the case for a lot of people. That's why you can't really blame people for turning down sex if they're doing what's right for them.

I don't agree because mating for life happens often enough in the animal kingdom too.
Most often, the people that say what you do are just trying to justify their position of wanting to boink whatever they want.

100% agree. if you want to play natural and not, then tae your clothes off. turn your electronics off, and move into the forrest. Ohh and you can drive to the forrest or use a flashlight either. Hows natural feeling by now?