Girls being COMPLETELY creeped out by my appearance

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14 Jun 2013, 1:35 pm

You might be an uncut diamond. For an aspie to succeed at dating, being above average in looks is probably essential. Gain some muscle mass, dress in fashionable (but no necessarily expensive) clothes and maintain a good hygiene. Learn to fake confidence as well.

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14 Jun 2013, 1:36 pm

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Honestly I think it might be the hairstyle.

Your face has strong eyebrow/eyes and the very short hair (almost buzzcut) just projects them as the sole focus of attention and that can be intimidating as a first impression.

I may be wrong but it wouldn't hurt to try leaving your hair longer.

I don't know, some ladies like aggressive looking men that are just normal good guys.

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14 Jun 2013, 1:41 pm

Those were just mean catty girls,ignore them.You look fine,not creepy at all.
I've had those type girls roll their eyes at me,most likely what I had on was not what they considered "stylish."

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14 Jun 2013, 1:41 pm

Kurgan wrote:

Learn to fake confidence as well.

A sport coat with a fedora and a blue plaid dress shirt underneath that, jeans, steel toed formal boots (leather), a good hair cut, and nicely trimmed mutton chops. That would be my outfit if impressing ladies.

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14 Jun 2013, 3:11 pm

I agree with letting your hair grow a bit longer.

Also, try doing some focused shoulder workouts.

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14 Jun 2013, 3:21 pm

thewhitrbbit wrote:

I agree with letting your hair grow a bit longer.

Also, try doing some focused shoulder workouts.

Will they get wider when I use weights? Or will they just get ripped and stay the same size?

I own a pair of these types: http://www.buydirect4u.co.uk/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/800x/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/2/0/20kg_dumbbell_set.jpg

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14 Jun 2013, 3:29 pm

Uprising wrote:

thewhitrbbit wrote:

I agree with letting your hair grow a bit longer.

Also, try doing some focused shoulder workouts.

A v-shape is built by working your lats, not your shoulders. However, you'll still benefit from shoulder exercises (seated shoulder press is my favourite).

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14 Jun 2013, 4:37 pm

Ignore those idiots (if they were trying to be jerks). You look nice in your pictures and probably nicer in person.

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14 Jun 2013, 5:34 pm

You look normal to me, not at all creepy. Like other people are saying, those girls were probably just jerks.

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14 Jun 2013, 6:35 pm

Uprising wrote:

I saw 2 girls my age walking in my direction, I didn't pay attention to them but I heard one go "OOOOHH MMYYYY GOOODDDDD" and they were both staring at me standing still when I passed them minding my own business.

So far nobody has suggested the obvious answer: THEY THOUGHT YOU WERE A FAMOUS MOVIE STAR OR MUSICIAN whom they never expected to see in Real Life. You are lucky they didn't ask for an autograph.

P.S. You look remarkably like a guy who asked a similar question with similar photo about six weeks ago. You aren't playing games with us, are you?

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14 Jun 2013, 6:35 pm

You're fine. And please don't get a fedora.

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15 Jun 2013, 1:14 pm

Uprising wrote:

This happened today when I was heading to work, I was walking listening to my mp3-player and I saw 2 girls my age walking in my direction, I didn't pay attention to them but I heard one go "OOOOHH MMYYYY GOOODDDDD" and they were both staring at me standing still when I passed them minding my own business.

This actually got me thinking, is it usual for a guy who is slim and gets zillions of (probably false) compliments from people about his good looks without asking for it, to be seen as a creepy alien monster by some females?

This is a recent picture of me:

I was wondering if it was because my long neck, narrow shoulders or feminine looks?

You look like a normal person. In fact I would say you are above average (a 6 out of 10). The only thing really unaesthetic about you appearance is your thin hair, larger then average forehead and high hair line. But again this is coming from me who hyper analyzes peoples faces so it's not something a normal person would notice right away.

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15 Jun 2013, 1:18 pm

ImmenseLoad wrote:

You look like a normal person. In fact I would say you are above average (a 6 out of 10).

lol, that's a "D" letter grade(60%)

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15 Jun 2013, 1:30 pm

ImmenseLoad wrote:

Uprising wrote:

I was wondering if it was because my long neck, narrow shoulders or feminine looks?

Well I suffer from the "moonface" syndrome when you look at me directly and my hair is thin as it's actually all falling out because I'm balding (this is a genetic trait, from my mother's side all my uncles are currently bald).

Also when you see my face from a side viewpoint, you'll notice I have a bird-face, which is another complex of mine. xD

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04 Jul 2013, 4:18 pm

Update

Even though there is result, I'm still not satisfied by it at all, so I'm gonna keep on going till I die if it's up to me.

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