Missing the point?

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There was this girl called Katie who had a crush on me back in 2007 and I did not reciprocate her interest in me cause I was not interested in her.

In 2012 I stumbled upon her Facebook page and thought she was quite nice. On yahoo answers i told some people how I all of a sudden took a fancy to her and one poster replied "the 17 year old you was not attracted to her but the 23 year old version of you might be"

Do you agree that poster missed the point that although I might like her years later the 23 year old version of Katie might NOT be attracted to me. Kind of like switching roles.

I nearly 25 now.

She might not be. But you never know.

There's no way for us to tell if the poster missed your point, because we don't know what your point was, and we don't know what your point was because you haven't told us exactly what you posted on Yahoo! answers.

She's familiar. She has acted positively to you it the past. It's very alluring if you are lonely now, you can forgive all sorts of flaws. Plus if your not hanging around her now, you have probably forgotten the personality traits that made you hesitate.

Don't fall for a picture, go talk to her.
The second time you go talk to her, bring up the subject.... "I really liked you back then. You seemed to really like me too. I don't know why I didn't hit on you back then. Just young and stupid I guess. Glad I didn't. Wouldn't have been able to appreciate you back then."

If you say that, she will tell you directly if she is interested or not and will be nice about it unless she is a psycho.