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Dr.Pepper
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22 Oct 2016, 12:43 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This is a first in a serie of threads for men.

Guys,don't listen to what people say. If a girl *never* initiates conversation then she is not interested. And It's important to emphasize on the word *never*.

Don't waste your time on her. I have never known ANY girl who has been interested and does not want to initiate conversation.

As a matter of fact, girl who is interested will create excuses so that she can initiate conversation with a legitimate reason.


This is wrong.


No, this is the ugly truth.


No it isn't.


Yes, it is! :ninja:


No, it isn't! I know from firsthand experience.



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22 Oct 2016, 1:56 pm

If you're into a guy then stay conversations once and w while.

It's really hard draining and irritating to always have to start conversations and think of new topics. If I don't we don't talk so sure seems like to me if a woman doesn't then she's. It interested enough



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22 Oct 2016, 2:48 pm

Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This is a first in a serie of threads for men.

Guys,don't listen to what people say. If a girl *never* initiates conversation then she is not interested. And It's important to emphasize on the word *never*.

Don't waste your time on her. I have never known ANY girl who has been interested and does not want to initiate conversation.

As a matter of fact, girl who is interested will create excuses so that she can initiate conversation with a legitimate reason.


This is wrong.


No, this is the ugly truth.


No it isn't.


Yes, it is! :ninja:


No, it isn't! I know from firsthand experience.


Yes, it is! I know from firsthand experience too!



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22 Oct 2016, 4:55 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This is a first in a serie of threads for men.

Guys,don't listen to what people say. If a girl *never* initiates conversation then she is not interested. And It's important to emphasize on the word *never*.

Don't waste your time on her. I have never known ANY girl who has been interested and does not want to initiate conversation.

As a matter of fact, girl who is interested will create excuses so that she can initiate conversation with a legitimate reason.


This is wrong.


No, this is the ugly truth.


No it isn't.


Yes, it is! :ninja:


No, it isn't! I know from firsthand experience.


Yes, it is! I know from firsthand experience too!


Did your avatar used to be a cat with your face?



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22 Oct 2016, 5:46 pm

Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This is a first in a serie of threads for men.

Guys,don't listen to what people say. If a girl *never* initiates conversation then she is not interested. And It's important to emphasize on the word *never*.

Don't waste your time on her. I have never known ANY girl who has been interested and does not want to initiate conversation.

As a matter of fact, girl who is interested will create excuses so that she can initiate conversation with a legitimate reason.


This is wrong.


No, this is the ugly truth.


No it isn't.


Yes, it is! :ninja:


No, it isn't! I know from firsthand experience.


Yes, it is! I know from firsthand experience too!


Did your avatar used to be a cat with your face?


Huh? No.

Did your avatar used to be a pumpkin?



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22 Oct 2016, 7:18 pm

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This is a first in a serie of threads for men.

Guys,don't listen to what people say. If a girl *never* initiates conversation then she is not interested. And It's important to emphasize on the word *never*.

Don't waste your time on her. I have never known ANY girl who has been interested and does not want to initiate conversation.

As a matter of fact, girl who is interested will create excuses so that she can initiate conversation with a legitimate reason.


This is wrong.


No, this is the ugly truth.


No it isn't.


Yes, it is! :ninja:


No, it isn't! I know from firsthand experience.


Yes, it is! I know from firsthand experience too!


Did your avatar used to be a cat with your face?


Huh? No.

Did your avatar used to be a pumpkin?


There was someone with a cat avatar like that and I was wondering if you were the same person. Clearly, your current avatar is a slice of bread. I've never had a pumpkin avatar.



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03 Nov 2016, 1:18 pm

Dr.Pepper wrote:
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Clearly, your current avatar is a slice of bread.


I don't dare ask what kind of bread they sell around your part of the world 8O


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05 Nov 2016, 12:46 am

Have you tried with different mediums of communication, she might initiate if it were done in an alternate way than whatever isn't carrying a current, maybe even do some crosswords together and sneak a 'talk to me' in the grid somehow if all else fails :x



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05 Nov 2016, 4:12 am

If the desire or the need of contacting me never occurs to her, if the thought never crosses her mind then what am I to her?

Nothing, a ghost.



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05 Nov 2016, 10:25 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
If the desire or the need of contacting me never occurs to her, if the thought never crosses her mind then what am I to her?

Nothing, a ghost.


Send her a text and get it over with.



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05 Nov 2016, 1:29 pm

Dr.Pepper wrote:
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If the desire or the need of contacting me never occurs to her, if the thought never crosses her mind then what am I to her?

Nothing, a ghost.


Send her a text and get it over with.



You are so annoying and you're completely missing the point of the thread.

Btw I have no crush right now so I was talking theoretically.

But seriously Pepper, if you always expect the guy you like to contact you first and you *never ever* contact him first, if you never even try yo make this minimal effort, then you are doing something.... very wrong and you will always have problems in relationships.

You have to change this behavior and this crazy expectation, it won't do you any good.



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05 Nov 2016, 2:35 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
If the desire or the need of contacting me never occurs to her, if the thought never crosses her mind then what am I to her?

Nothing, a ghost.


Send her a text and get it over with.



You are so annoying and you're completely missing the point of the thread.

Btw I have no crush right now so I was talking theoretically.

But seriously Pepper, if you always expect the guy you like to contact you first and you *never ever* contact him first, if you never even try yo make this minimal effort, then you are doing something.... very wrong and you will always have problems in relationships.

You have to change this behavior and this crazy expectation, it won't do you any good.


Fine.



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05 Nov 2016, 4:25 pm

Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
If the desire or the need of contacting me never occurs to her, if the thought never crosses her mind then what am I to her?

Nothing, a ghost.


Send her a text and get it over with.

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15 Nov 2016, 7:12 am

Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Dr.Pepper wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This is a first in a serie of threads for men.

Guys,don't listen to what people say. If a girl *never* initiates conversation then she is not interested. And It's important to emphasize on the word *never*.

Don't waste your time on her. I have never known ANY girl who has been interested and does not want to initiate conversation.

As a matter of fact, girl who is interested will create excuses so that she can initiate conversation with a legitimate reason.


This is wrong.


No, this is the ugly truth.


No it isn't.


Yes, it is! :ninja:


No, it isn't! I know from firsthand experience.



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15 Nov 2016, 9:39 am

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:lol: :lol: :lol:

this forum in a nutshell

I would say that OP is wrong but I dunno, I think for a guy to wait for a woman to initiate with him is probably going to end up alone. Perhaps we're all just the hideous, I don't know.



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15 Nov 2016, 2:58 pm

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:lol: :lol: :lol:

this forum in a nutshell

I would say that OP is wrong but I dunno, I think for a guy to wait for a woman to initiate with him is probably going to end up alone. Perhaps we're all just the hideous, I don't know.



lol best video ever.

I think you misunderstood the thread; you can still make the first move, I was not talking about the first move -
but I was talking about if the guy has to make the nth move and the girl never initiates never ever then the girl doesn't really like him. There's a big difference here.
As you notice, I am not saying maybe or probably doesn't like him - I am asserting 100% that she doesn't like him.

If you are talking to a girl for like two months and so, and it's always you who starts texting/talking/communication/asking out/all while she never does so then it's 100% doesn't really like you - I am being that extremely certain on that; I am talking from experience.