10 year age gap. Can a 29 old date a 19 year old?

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When President Trump married the First Lady their ages were 58 and 34. According to Cosmo they first got together when she was 28.

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Oooooh that makes me happy. Now I can spend the rest of my day in happy dream land thnx

Aside from her being a supermodel but otherwise totally similar somehow I think he did the initiating too. Hmm they do seem happy.

I have a terrible feeling the same thing would happen to me if I dated a 19 year old.

Was in the same boat beginning of the year.
10 years isn't a large gap for adults but when one of the adults is a teenager or just entering their 20's then that's a completely different kettle of fish.

What about if the guy is a loser with no job, not going to college & not disabled or anything & ends up moving in with the girl & her parents partly cuz the girl is still in high-skewl. Situations like that actually aren't that uncommon where I'm from.

He must be good attractive and have good social skills.

I suggest u move

First off, there's no problem at all in the age gap as long as you don't think you just became the main character in a love story. Keep your head cool.

I don't mean to alarm you but... if other ladies are pushing you to make a move there's a chance that your one already knows about you and is just waiting for you to make a move. That is, if you can totally trust these women, you really should waste no more time. Ask the woman out for a coffee as "friends", have a little chat and uncover more about your woman.

Remember this must be all about her: find out her interests. Family, kids, pets, tv shows... express that you are interested in her, just don't do that with words. Don't talk much about yourself unless she asks questions, in that case you be very brief and vague, so that the conversation can stretch for a while (because she will be curious). Don't try to be funny. Just be natural. Most important, wear a content face.

On the other hand if you can't trust those girls, there's a chance that they just want to see you fail. However, the whole "friendly brief conversation" idea still stands. Don't go full pedal to the metal, be as discrete as possible, don't let anyone see you asking her out.

That's my advice for age gap *before* the relationship starts. Whenever you are both together and if you feel like needing more advice, feel free to come to me and I'll gladly try to offer the best possible help.

If she rejects you though, for whatever reason, just forget about her immediately. It's "hello, goodbye" in the morning at its best.

The girl told another female working when asked thst she didn’t like me. That was two months ago. I don’t talk to or make eye contact with her..

No! I'm sure that stuff happens, but look at it this way: if you need to ask people if it's okay, then that's a red flag. There's a lot of 19-year-olds that are uncomfortable with dating guys out of their age range. Also, it's never a good idea to ask date a co-worker. You can be friends obviously, but coming on to her in any way is just going to be uncomfortable for her. She's there to do her job and better herself. Assuming anything else would be highly presumptuous.

The woman can always say "no." Sly's not the type to be a creep, and to follow her around or anything.

I don't think it's a particularly bad thing for a 29-year-old man to want to date a 19-year-old woman.

It's probably not good to have a relationship with a co-worker, especially when she works in the same department as you, under the same supervisor.

I dated a woman who was about 27 when I was 19, we were together off and on for a few years. Age difference didn't seem to be a problem. Also went out with a 37 year old when I was 30.

Why do I get the feeling that "she" was the 19 year old?

It happens. A lot of 19 year olds are more mature than me lol

Course they can. 19 years old is a legal adult. Stuff what other people think.

Unfortunately aspies can come across that way. It’s not fair, but it happens to all of us.