Leander wrote:
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is my favourite depiction of love in a movie. The even attention it gives to the ugly side of the characters and their relationship makes the positive parts that much more moving. I can never get sucked into a film when things are too clean and idealistic.
Oh, if you want to watch a film that shows the ugly side of human relationships, you want to see "Bitter Moon." Hugh Grant's character meets Emaneulle Seigneur's character on a cruise ship and her husband, played by Peter Coyote, says Grant's character can have her (sexually) if he listens to Coyote's story first. Coyote tells a story of a relationship gone bad and two people addicted to each other and the harm they inflict on one another as a result of growing to hate one another yet feeling powerless to break up.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0jb1YcQjOiw[/youtube]
(The whole film is available in parts on YouTube. Just search on "Bitter Moon" to find it.)
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