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31 Dec 2007, 6:09 pm

fivecents wrote:
Even if you do love her. Love you first.


Exactly. It's like I said on page 1, for the first time in my life I am actually comfortable with myself, even though I may be outside societal norms. I'm starting to take control of my own destiny and be the person that I want to be. Yet, it's like everyone else has said in their advice to me: I'm going to have to take the leap out of this situation so that I can fly with my own wings. It's a scary time in my life, but necessary to my overall well-being.


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02 Jan 2008, 5:50 am

fivecents wrote:
Focus on what is wrong with you for staying.

Eww, get out. Stat. There is a whole other world out there for you. This is not where you were meant to be. Better alone than in skankville...

Even if you do love her. Love you first.
Yeah, if she wants to wallow in her own pigsty let her, but don't drag yourself down to her level. BTW, she's had plenty of chances to change already. If she was going to make any changes, she would have by now.


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