do you want to be in a relationship?

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27 Apr 2008, 5:33 pm

just a question to help me out. How many of you want to be in a relationship? Have you ever been in one? Was it hard? Let me know! ^^

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27 Apr 2008, 5:36 pm

Yes, but I would rather be single than be with the wrong person.

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27 Apr 2008, 5:37 pm

Yes, I would like to be in a relationship.

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27 Apr 2008, 5:39 pm

This is a good question. I had a girlfriend for more than 3 years, I have had different friends, but the more I become indipendent and gain confidence in myself the more it seems to me that, deep inside, I DON'T want significant relationships, I'm just dropping people on the way, the things I enjoy are all things I do on my own, people just seem to confuse and disturb me, I can handle them quite well right now, but social interactions often feels just like a duty, not a pleasure or something I actively seek. I'm still open anyway, I'm still developing, so I still don't know for sure what I really want, we'll see.

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27 Apr 2008, 5:47 pm

I would love to be in a relationship with the right girl who understands what I go through.

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27 Apr 2008, 5:50 pm

Never been in one myself, then again I was as unattractive as they came in High School just three short years ago....about 100lbs overweight, didn't shower daily, didn't shave daily, horrible fashion sense, hair needed to be cut, etc...

-80lbs, a haircut and hygiene improvements later my best friend and her mom confidently call me cute, an improvement at the very least. I still have a negative body image in my head so I have the confidence of the man who was made the decision to allow Challenger to fly. No real reason to be confident so I'm not and thus don't try.

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27 Apr 2008, 5:50 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

Yes, but I would rather be single than be with the wrong person.

Same here. Unfortunately girls that would be right for me are taken for the long haul or otherwise not interested.
I was in a relationship for nearly six years.

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27 Apr 2008, 5:57 pm

Not really for the time being. It seems to me that relationships are much different than what I thought they were, and I have to come to terms with that before trying to find a relationship.

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27 Apr 2008, 6:17 pm

Yes, it is a wonderful feeling to love someone and know they love you back.

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27 Apr 2008, 8:09 pm

I'm in one now...marriage number two... now if I can just get it to work...

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27 Apr 2008, 8:46 pm

I've been through alot over the past year trying lots of things and learning a whole lot too, but I definitely want to be in one just have to keep looking and working.

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27 Apr 2008, 8:56 pm

Depends how you define want. I don't want to be in a relationship, but I voted yes, because it's hard coded into my DNA to seek a relationship, and as a 19 year old hormones are too potent to ignore.
So, my answer? I want to be in a relationship, whether I want to or not.

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27 Apr 2008, 8:56 pm

pbcoll wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

Yes, but I would rather be single than be with the wrong person.

Same here. Unfortunately girls that would be right for me are taken for the long haul or otherwise not interested.

Ditto.

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27 Apr 2008, 9:26 pm

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27 Apr 2008, 10:03 pm

Do you want to be in a relationship?

Nope, probably not.

Have you ever been in one?

A few.

Was it hard?

Very.

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