bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Stinkypuppy wrote:
The nice thing about being able to step away from any sort of relationship (romantic or platonic) with a straight NT girl is so that you don't feel forced into keeping up with the social skills.
Ah, tying this all back to the main focus of the thread, you mentioned something interesting:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
AS girls: They are simply wonderful, they're not b*tchy, irritating................ I don't think it would be a problem having a relationship with them, i can see they are much more caring, hot, and tolerable.
I know I said earlier that I could see a potential long-term romantic relationship with an AS girl, but in retrospect I have to add some conditions, primarily focusing on the social skills the AS girl has picked up. There's this one AS girl I know, she's pretty cool and all and generally open-minded... but I don't know if it's due to her hanging around straight NT girls so much (she admittedly doesn't really hang out with guys at all), but she can get quite b!tchy at times, which is a turnoff. I've noticed that AS folks generally pick up and absorb characteristics of the people they hang out with and who accept them, so this one AS girl I know is no different in that respect. Similarly, while I generally love AS guys, there are a lot of AS guys out there who have picked up a lot of straight NT guy traits, including the "I just wanna get in her pants! zomgwtfbbq!!" kind of sexual bragging and posturing that I just can't stand.
I think having social skills are important... but please don't forget to turn them off before they go too far!
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