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21 Jan 2012, 1:06 pm

So we're both aspies we were dating for about a month then 2 weeks ago she tells me that shes feeling something she doesnt understand and that she just wants "a friend and maybe a lover" a few days before that we started talking less and less and sence then weve been talking more and more, ive been through breaks like this with my ex but the feel of it is totally differant but she was bipolar so that may have had something to do with it. we're hanging out tonight if she doesnt get called in to work. so like the title says whats going on between us?



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21 Jan 2012, 1:10 pm

she likes you, but not that much, but still wants to have sex.
she stopped talking because she was anxious about expressing this, but now it's out in the open and you (presumably) haven't flipped out she feels more at ease, so you are talking more again.

i guess/my guess



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21 Jan 2012, 1:26 pm

OneStepBeyond wrote:
she likes you, but not that much, but still wants to have sex.
she stopped talking because she was anxious about expressing this, but now it's out in the open and you (presumably) haven't flipped out she feels more at ease, so you are talking more again.

i guess/my guess


i dont know if its just my ego but i dont think thats exactly the case. things got odd right after the first time we fooled around, I asked why and she said "a new emotion" and i think i one of the only guys shes been with in this way, i think just from how shes was up untill then



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21 Jan 2012, 1:34 pm

so you think she's in love with you and you want us to confirm it?



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21 Jan 2012, 1:53 pm

I dont think she loves me just that shes feeling more than shes used to. I did almost the same thing at one point or another.



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21 Jan 2012, 2:12 pm

And i would really love to know where we stand because it really affects behavioral protocalls



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21 Jan 2012, 3:29 pm

ask her, we don't know!



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22 Jan 2012, 3:06 pm

I have she doesnt know, shes just kind of withdrawn