05 Feb 2009, 6:21 pm
05 Feb 2009, 6:23 pm
05 Feb 2009, 7:00 pm
05 Feb 2009, 7:54 pm
Haliphron wrote:
zee wrote:
Whoever said that a girl will mention her bf at some point in conversation is right.
For the most part, but another thing you could do is to ask an indirect question that presumes she has a bf; even a question about her bf and if she's single she'll most likely respond by saying she doesnt have one.
That's not a bad strategy, actually. I remember seeing a great version of this approach in a James Cagney film, where he says to the girl: "So, who's carrying your books for you now?"
But I agree with Zee and homer that if a girl is taken, she is likely to bring it up in conversation herself. Assuming every girl is taken right off the bat seems like it'd be shooting yourself in the foot- that's like going into a job interview assuming somebody else will get the position.
05 Feb 2009, 7:57 pm
05 Feb 2009, 8:06 pm
05 Feb 2009, 9:17 pm
05 Feb 2009, 9:20 pm
Nambo wrote:
13 eh!
Then you had better hurry up, I left it untill I was 16 which was too late, by then, any girl you fancy will allready have a boyfriend.
Then you had better hurry up, I left it untill I was 16 which was too late, by then, any girl you fancy will allready have a boyfriend.
Ha. Because we all know the relationships we make at age 13 are usually long-term and committed.
05 Feb 2009, 10:42 pm
06 Feb 2009, 12:14 pm
zee wrote:
Whoever said that a girl will mention her bf at some point in conversation is right.
Yeah, we hate that, though.
I'm an NT female with an AS boyfriend of 1.5 years, btw. When guys hit on me, it's obvious and kind of pathetic.
You will find the right girl when you aren't looking for her-- that's the way it works.
My bf and I decided that I should wear a fake engagement ring so that I don't have to deal with it anymore, because it can get scary/stalkerish real fast.
If you just talk to a girl, but not for the purpose of finding a girlfriend, you will be surprised how well things go. If she is attracted and there is chemistry, she'll probably pursue you or tell her friends she likes you or whatever. When my bf and I were first getting together, that was a bit of a problem, because it took him a little while to realize I was interested.
06 Feb 2009, 12:29 pm
06 Feb 2009, 12:40 pm
How to tell if a woman's single....
If she's not making much eye contact
If she's alone sitting by herself
If she's not wearing a dainty ring on the ring finger
If she's not dressed up in a sexy outfit
If she wears too much jewelry and not enough skin
If she speaks awkwardly when in a conversation
If she has too many pets
If she looks around at guys when they're not looking.
Oh wait.....that'd be me. 
06 Feb 2009, 12:48 pm
MissConstrue wrote:
If she looks around at guys when they're not looking.
That's why she's single... if you keep looking, love will never find you.
06 Feb 2009, 12:58 pm
girlyCOG wrote:
If you just talk to a girl, but not for the purpose of finding a girlfriend, you will be surprised how well things go. If she is attracted and there is chemistry, she'll probably pursue you or tell her friends she likes you or whatever. When my bf and I were first getting together, that was a bit of a problem, because it took him a little while to realize I was interested.
As I was mentioning earlier in the thread, I tend to address all women the same way, and don't make that many romantic overtures (due to such interactions making me too nervous, and an approach without them will still work)... The good news is that, by the time the conversation is over, I'm friends with her... The bad news is that, by the time the conversation is over, I'm friends with her...
I guess what I'm trying to say is that you need to actually attract said woman in order for that approach to work, and since I'm unlovable, that's not going to happen in my case...
06 Feb 2009, 1:36 pm
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