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Anna4077
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28 Feb 2009, 6:43 am

I believe it was Woody Allen who once said about casual sex, "As far as meaningless experiences go, its one of the best." :lol:

Personally, I find it impossible to be sexually attracted to anyone I care about,which is why I prefer to have sex with strangers.



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28 Feb 2009, 8:57 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
JohnHopkins wrote:
Where did this Asperger's assumption that sex and love are only EVER separate come from?


TV often depicts sex without love (and there are over 9000 fairy tales where the inverse is depicted, in order to save the *precious* innocence of little children :roll: ) which leads to the assumption that they have to be separate entities... although they need not mutually exclusive in a relationship, and one can certainly lead to the other, but to say that they are anything but two separate entities is just plain bullshit...
Kinda like how nerds usually have something against drinking. I guess it's not the thing itself some people are against, but the association. That's what causes the black and white thinking really...



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28 Feb 2009, 10:42 am

Haliphron wrote:
Where, oh where did this ridiculous society myth that love and sex are Not mutually exclusive come from?
Women love to promulgate it and in relationships they pretend that its true but even THEY no better than that. For example, I one read an article about how to explain sex to children starting with: When a man and woman really love each others....... :roll:

GAH! That sh*t makes me wanna PUKE!


Method of social conformity, long standing... reading a book from the twenties on such matters, and it talks about controlling the baser seminal impulses outside of wedlock. It's a social convention, often rooted in economics, social status, and health concerns. Sex is sex, love is love, and sometimes the two shall meet. For me, sex without love is empty and unsatisfying; doesn't mean it isn't also enjoyable, but the consequences outweigh the benefits in my world.


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28 Feb 2009, 3:06 pm

Magnus wrote:
^What part are you missing?

Perhaps you should try to have tantric sex with aliens.
Could you elaborate a little more because I'd love to try it;)