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20 Nov 2017, 11:10 pm

Many people are worse than annoying to me. Their ridiculous, arrogant, and disgusting behavior fills me with such white-hot rage that it makes me think about doing cruel and sadistic things to them and getting away with it legally. That's why I have to avoid most people whenever possible. I'm a danger to them. And myself. :(



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21 Nov 2017, 9:55 pm

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
They talk too much

They talk too loudly

They half listen when I talk. Then they grunt "what?". Like that is the etiquette equivalent of "excuse me"

They are impatient and unwilling to wait. Even for the water fountain

They have a "holier than thou" attitude

They make superficial comments "nice shoes"

Whenever you do something they do not like they say "why", as if you have to justify it to them

They call me "n***a", even though I ain't black. If I called them "n***a" then you can't imagine the response

Whenever you do something they do not like they say it's "disrespectful". They make a big deal. They act like they have never done anything wrong before. They act like you invented the world's worst crime

They let their dogs off leash. That is illegal.

They act so innocent

They call themselves "people", "we", or "most people". As though they overpower you because they outnumber you

They act like whatever they want (or. A light) is the most important thing in the world. And you should stop jogging just to give it to them

They say "are you ok". Like they can and will help

They ask :roll: none of your business :roll: questions

They correct every slightest thing you say. They miss the point

They expect you to believe everything they say

They make comments about your appearance

They remark on what you are eating and how you are eating it

They have the nerve to physically touch you

:idea:

They are not worth the cost benefit analysis :cry: usually

They make plans and break them. Or just don't show up

They act like it's perfectly normal to flake

They say "you got mad". As if "mad" is an emotion

It's "angry"

And maybe the anger is justified

They say "girl", to refer to adult females, but they do not say "boy" to call adult males

They drive impatiently and almost hit pedestrians

When they do the slightest :lol: nice :jester: thing, they act like they physically dragged your corpse out of a burning building

Some of them blame their homophobia on the victim

:skull: they are way too dramatic :ninja:

Theatrical

Emotional rollercoaster

:lol:


OMG those people sound sooooo annoying! Your description of annoying people is pretty graphic. I don’t want to hang out with those people!



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21 Nov 2017, 10:26 pm

Yep, people are uninteresting at best, more often annoying (or worse) and get on my nerve. I'm a misanthrope.

Excluding the extremes, this is what I hate the most:

- pushiness (really, really, really hate it!)

- condescenscion

- talkativeness

- extroversion and having to voice every thought they have (gad they're annoying! and they also make me think that if that is an indication of what goes on in their mind, that is pathetic)

- arrogance

- hyper people

- loud people

- ditzy people

- people who think privacy is a joke or something they are exempt from

- people who are offended by everything/ too sensitive

- people with strong social needs (which is pretty much everyone compared to me)

- needy people

- people with this or that problem that they keep going on and on about (even when you like someone, it will get old when they do it enough)

- small talk

-people who want to make everything a debate


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22 Nov 2017, 9:05 am

Kiki

There are so many people that fit that description, at so many times

Short of agoraphobia or "Man versus Wild" , strongly doubt that it is possible or practical to avoid them

So i hate and fear them. As much as functional, I avoid them

Some of them act like every thought and emotion that goes through their precious lil heads is the latest greatest scientific discovery

Some of them ask your nationality, as if they are doing you a favor

Homophobia



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23 Nov 2017, 12:52 pm

Short Guy- I agree.



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23 Nov 2017, 8:44 pm

history gal

although, in the defense of "Most People", "Most People" find me annoying.

they find that i take too long to do things. motor retardation. they find that i take too long in the bathroom.

they correctly tell me i am "weird" "weirdo", "strange".

they tell me i made too much (or not enough) eye contact

they tell me i talk too much or not enough

they tell me i talk too slowly (or too quickly)

they tell me "you stink" (olfactorially)

they tell me "you make people uncomfortable with the way you dress!"

"why did you cut your hair?".

they have the nerve to tell me that my transgender identity is "all in your head". any better place for it? and where was the speaker's cisgender identity? in his head.

:D

and whenever someone says "we", "people", or "most people", that almost always serves as a red flag. that the speaker truly believes me as morally inferior to the speaker. b/c the speaker outnumbers me. thus the speaker overpowers me

but the solar system contains more defendants that have been convicted of rape, than winners of Nobel Prize in Literate. it does not (necessarily) follow that just b/c one activity has more participants, it is more morally justified



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24 Nov 2017, 4:11 pm

I like all kinds of people.



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27 Nov 2017, 1:31 pm

When they make positive judgments, they act like they did you a personal favor

The previous counselor had the nerve to tell me, multiple times, "I know you're smart". She was 35 and I was 33. How condescending. (Rolls eyes).

Almost everyone is way too judgmental

But I do not have the authority to fix them

:evil: judgmental :roll: is a Myers Briggs personality type

Frustrated

Angry

Annoyed

And then they act like their opinion are important and factual, just because their opinions are popular

Homophobia is popular. Does not make it morally justified

:idea:

The solar system contains more convicted rapists than Nobel Peace prize winners

Does not follow that the activity with more participants is morally superior


:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:


It gets on my nerves when someone says "people do it all the time" or otherwise refer to himself or herself as "we" "people" or "most people"

:evil:


Their attitude

They acted like they overpower me because they outnumber me

And then it sounds like I am not a :jester: person :jester: ,



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27 Nov 2017, 1:36 pm

sfbum: The Myers-Briggs type "judging" has little to do with being judgmental; it just indicates someone who likes to be in control and to plan things out beforehand.



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27 Nov 2017, 6:35 pm

Short guy, I hate when people are condescending to me especially if they aren't much older than me. It makes me feel like we are not equals even though we should be since we are close in age.



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27 Nov 2017, 8:26 pm

ladyelaine wrote:
Short guy, I hate when people are condescending to me especially if they aren't much older than me. It makes me feel like we are not equals even though we should be since we are close in age.


I had that happen when I worked at an amusement park during my third summer season by this girl who was three years younger and she wasn't even a team lead but a new girl. When I told her to stop it was:
"That's not very nice, I am trying to help."

What made it worse is that the other crew members agreed with her. "I know you don't like her but she is only trying to help."



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27 Nov 2017, 9:21 pm

Summer_Twilight , that totally sucks that the other crew members weren't on your side. They sound just as condescending as the girl they were defending. NTs are always quick to defend each other before they would ever consider defending one of us.



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29 Nov 2017, 6:27 am

Hahahaha witch, you aren't trying to help. Tell that to someone stupid enough to believe it.

Do this if you can get alone with the person. They aren't trying to help. We know what they are up to.

Also Elaine you need to grow your inner tigress. Don't take s**t from anyone.



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29 Nov 2017, 6:44 am

People get annoyed with me when I howl and meow in the subway.

In the street, they don't mind as much.



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29 Nov 2017, 7:38 am

:D Now that's funny Krafty



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29 Nov 2017, 10:38 am

Lol Kraftie