Does your voice change in public?

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I haven't left my house in weeks. Today, I was told that I had to go watch some kids at this meeting. There were seven kids between the ages of 2 and 11. They were all really loud, except this one little girl who I am postive was an Aspie and kept following me around. Weirdly enough, I didn't have a panic attack. In fact, it was the most fun I've had in awhile. And I even made friends with some 17 year old girl and I have her number and everything. I'm actually really happy right now. This is new for me.

Anyway, about the voice thing, I usually speak in a deeper, monotone voice when I am at home. I swear, when I was speaking to the girls there, I sounded like a legitimate valley girl from southern California. I was not trying in anyway to change my voice, and I didn't even noticed how I sounded until someone asked "are you like a prep or something? you sound like a real girly girl or a cheerleader.". Then I realized I had like a weird accent. I tried to change my voice back to normal, but I couldn't make it sound right. I'm still trying to get my voice back to normal, because I don't want to sound like a valley girl when we start debates next week!

Is it normal for your voice to change like that depending on the situation?

That is really strange. I have heard of people changing the way they talk with different people, but that refers to word usage (and grammar) not VOICE.

I supposedly speak in a monotone voice as well. Since some people have trouble understanding my feelings, I end up speaking them.
I think that that is a good solution.
A great example is after I tell a joke I will sometimes say "I'm joking" if it doesn't seem obvious enough.
If I am happy about something I will make sure to that I "REALLY like that"
etc. etc.

My voice often changes depending on the social situation. By default, I have an atypical accent for where I live (more like RP than AusE). But, I find that when I travel to visit family in the country, my accent becomes a bit more typical sounding.

It has to be some unconscious adjustment to the social expectations (or maybe just the general vocal mannerisms) of the surrounding populace. I made no effort to change my voice. It just switched. Sometimes I find myself speaking an Icelandic-sounding accent or a Southern American accent like Clarice Starling — that definitely has nothing to do with the social expectations of the surrounding populace.

in public my voice goes up an octave and takes on a flat affect and monotonic ranting quality. i always speak too loudly and am always being "shushed."

My voice also goes up a bit if I'm stressed. Although the key thing is when I'm stressed my accent starts to creep in if I'm speaking English. My friends joke that they can tell my emotional state by it. They're not wrong, my accent is usually very slight but certain level of stress and I just cringe at how strong it gets, which in turn makes it even worse.

I've joked with my friends that if they hear me start to speak my native language it means I'm either almost asleep or stressed enough I'm about to vibrate into another dimension.