I used to think this was just me, but some recent posts in L&D about high expectations and such have made me consider whether this is a generalized condition among AS girls.
My personal opinion on the matter is that the problem is more due to actually becoming attracted in the first place than having unreasonable expectations.
Recently I became attracted to a guy for the first time in two years, but unfortunately he turned me down. This made me realize just how rarely I actually find myself attracted to someone romantically (although when I am, the feelings are very strong), as I was considering how long it might be before I might get attracted to someone again.
I have many male friends that logically I would be happy to date as I think they are great people, but I just can't quite bring myself to cross that line because the romantic attraction isn't there from my side.
From the posts I've read, I'm not sure whether or not this is the case with AS guys also - from my observations they seem to get attracted on and off with about the same consistency of my NT male friends. However, I could be wrong.
Please discuss...
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