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Have you ever had a relationship with a married or otherwise "taken" man
No, never have, never will. That is just wrong. 53%  53%  [ 27 ]
No, never have, but I can see where it could happen. 10%  10%  [ 5 ]
Yes, I have and I just couldn't stop myself, but I regret it. 6%  6%  [ 3 ]
Yes, I have and I just couldn't stop myself and would do it again. 12%  12%  [ 6 ]
None of the above. 20%  20%  [ 10 ]
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06 Jan 2010, 6:37 pm

No I don't find the aspect of getting with a guy who's already in a relationship at all attractive.

However I was with a guy who was having a relationship behind my back. I didn't know it at the time and felt so low after that.


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19 Jan 2010, 11:58 am

I used to think that I would never understand how a woman could go for a guy in a relationship, until I fell head over heels. I think the problem is that I have never met her and she doesn't feel real to me.

I try very hard not to flirt with him and I don't want to take it further, but we really click. Now this is a big thing for me because I find it very hard to click with anyone.

But I feel bad because I don't want to hurt her. I also feel like a bit of a looser. Can't I find my own guy. It's not a good situation to be in.



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19 Jan 2010, 1:44 pm

musicboxforever wrote:
I used to think that I would never understand how a woman could go for a guy in a relationship, until I fell head over heels. I think the problem is that I have never met her and she doesn't feel real to me.

I try very hard not to flirt with him and I don't want to take it further, but we really click. Now this is a big thing for me because I find it very hard to click with anyone.

But I feel bad because I don't want to hurt her. I also feel like a bit of a looser. Can't I find my own guy. It's not a good situation to be in.


Believe me you will and if you don't, you're only fooling yourself.

I didn't know the guy I was going out with had a girl. What's strange is she was his exgirlfriend whom he got back with. When she met me, instead of taking it out on him, she took it out on me and I had no idea she existed.


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19 Jan 2010, 5:31 pm

damn, it was so easy when I was a kid. it was pretty obvious that a married guy was NOT to be considered a guy at all. the wife was the one holding the balls.

that's why I hate office jobs, too many hot married men around, being the bosses of you which only adds to the allure :P


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