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Inventor wrote:
They do not hate you, they will talk to deflect their own guilt.
Those pointing the finger should be closely watched, they are up to something.
I find that being friendly works the same as holding a puppy in your lap. It wanted to get in your lap, but then it wanted to leave, hold it just a while longer, pet it, talk nice, and it will never get in your lap again.
None of the other people know what they are doing, or think about it, they are running on automatic, so give just a bit more, make them think once, and they will avoid you.
i think Inventor says it well.
I also know in my life that i have indeed been "hated" for my asd style of relating. It is better in the second half of my life than the first.
But as we grow in life, and learn more about who and what we are, we tend to be able to weather these storms and we can develop a good sense of self and a self-esteem that is not dependent on external trappings or opinions or views.
good luck on the journey.
and maybe just be aware that not everyone is nice and understanding, but there ARE good people everywhere.
18 Dec 2009, 3:12 am
