What was your first kiss like?

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When did you have your first kiss?
as a Child 14%  14%  [ 8 ]
13 7%  7%  [ 4 ]
14 5%  5%  [ 3 ]
15 9%  9%  [ 5 ]
16-17 23%  23%  [ 13 ]
18-19 25%  25%  [ 14 ]
20's 13%  13%  [ 7 ]
30's 2%  2%  [ 1 ]
40's and above 2%  2%  [ 1 ]
Total votes : 56

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27 Dec 2009, 8:26 am

khelben1979 wrote:
That is a good question. I would say: lack of interest and also I often have suspicions that it's gonna cost some money as well, and so I generally don't feel very good about it.


You will eventually get used to it if you expose yourself enough to certain social situations.

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I trained martial arts a few years ago, and it was something which involved both personal development and the social part, I stopped because of health reasons and because of my low economy.


Those sound like valid reasons.

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I enjoy spending much of my time on internet and investigating new technologies and I'm also extremely interested in science in different fields. I'm not sure what social events that I would feel very comfortable about.


I prefer spending time with people who have above-average intelligence, a broad range of interests and a very open mind. With that kind of people, I can discuss pretty much any topic freely. They're hard to find, though, but it's nevertheless worth finding such people.

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More math studies from my part in the beginning of next year, it's the most social thing I can think of.. Hmm.. I'm not religious either which excludes everything in that as well.


You shouldn't look for specific cliques, clubs or groups of people but rather for individuals with similar interests and/or similar perspectives. If you focus on groups of people rather than individuals, you'll never really get a strong connection with anyone.....



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27 Dec 2009, 1:32 pm

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I was just asked by makuranososhi no longer to post on the topic of illegal drugs in the public parts of this forum because some less openminded people may feel uncomfortable with it. I suggest if you seek more advice you send me a private message.


Inaccurate as to the reason, but correct in that the continued discussion regarding the use of illegal drugs is not appropriate - especially where children are able to access that conversation.


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28 Dec 2009, 8:51 am

makuranososhi wrote:
Salonfilosoof wrote:
I was just asked by makuranososhi no longer to post on the topic of illegal drugs in the public parts of this forum because some less openminded people may feel uncomfortable with it. I suggest if you seek more advice you send me a private message.


Inaccurate as to the reason, but correct in that the continued discussion regarding the use of illegal drugs is not appropriate - especially where children are able to access that conversation.


So you're succumbing to the fears of less openminded people (which may include yourself)... After all, children would only benefit from honest information (including both pros and cons) about topics like drugs before they get old enough to hang out with "bad friends" and smoke pot behind your back. Why do you insist on hiding information from children when that information will be useful for them when they get to make certain choices later in life? You make it appear as if I'm some kind of street cocaine peddler or something while I'm just suggesting a fair and honest debate on topics like drugs.



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28 Dec 2009, 9:41 am

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hmm. what is LSD like, anyways? is it highly addictive?


I believe it is habitually addictive, rather than chemically addictive. For example- if you take it to go to parties you will get to the point you can't go to a party without taking it. You crave it so you can enjoy the party. If you stopped going to parties then there would be little desire to take it.

It can also cause synaesthesia ("seeing" sound, "hearing" colour, etc). Seems that any you buy off the street should not be enough for an overdose.

I believe the biggest risk is taking it for the first time. You experience things differently and if you are not expecting it you can panic. If one were to try the drug then it would be a good idea to expect to see funky things and feel different and just "let go" and accept it.

This question was pleasing, I had a reason to look up wikipedia!



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28 Dec 2009, 9:48 am

SirLogiC wrote:
I believe it is habitually addictive, rather than chemically addictive. For example- if you take it to go to parties you will get to the point you can't go to a party without taking it. You crave it so you can enjoy the party. If you stopped going to parties then there would be little desire to take it.


I would personally never suggest LSD as a party-drug anyway...

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I believe the biggest risk is taking it for the first time. You experience things differently and if you are not expecting it you can panic. If one were to try the drug then it would be a good idea to expect to see funky things and feel different and just "let go" and accept it.


Obviously...



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28 Dec 2009, 4:24 pm

SirLogiC wrote:
Spazzergasm wrote:

This question was pleasing, I had a reason to look up wikipedia!


:D glad to have pleased.



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28 Dec 2009, 6:29 pm

Unfortunately I've never had one yet, but I'm still eagerly waiting for it! :D


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28 Dec 2009, 7:07 pm

My first kiss was actually on my second date or so -- the first date, which was semi-chaperoned, she had groped me you-know-where, and this was finally our first time alone together since then. I picked her up in my parents car, and we had our moment.

The kiss itself was awkward -- I didn't know what I was doing, wasn't good at it, and I don't think she was either, despite having more experience than me. More exciting was that I was finally getting a kiss, and that I was being groped (again). In retrospect it wasn't nearly as romantic or good as other first kisses with other people, but it was still very nice and memorable in a carnal, "I never did this before" kind of way. And given the kind of suffering and self-doubt I had been plagued with (and sadly would be revisited by years later), it was a nice affirmation of myself as a valid person in this world and someone who might actually be liked by the opposite sex.

That the way I view it, anyways.



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29 Dec 2009, 3:13 am

bdhkhsfgk wrote:
khelben1979 wrote:
Salonfilosoof wrote:
khelben1979 wrote:
Never on the mouth, I might have received something as a child but I don't remember anything from that, and I do have a very, very good long term memory.


You're 30 and you've never even "tongued" a girl?!?


That's right.


Tonguing sucks, kissing is much more passionate and enjoyable.


I've tried a couple of times. It's weird, and uncomfortable. I'm not sure how exactly it's supposed to be done, but it wasn't like anything i;ve seen or read about. :/



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29 Dec 2009, 3:14 am

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Where's the none option on the poll? You should have really added that one because that would be sure to get plenty of votes.

Anyhow, the only thing I can do is image what kissing a person would be like because I've never experienced any.


I forgot that one. :(



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29 Dec 2009, 5:28 am

I was 13 or so. A boy in my neighborhood (we'd gone to day camp together) baked me some cookies and invited me to sit with him on his porch. A few cookies later, he shyly kissed me, then ran into his house leaving me with the cookies.

It was confusing but rather lovely. I think he was confused too.


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29 Dec 2009, 5:49 am

I was 17 (old for my crowd, very old) and it was my friends (best friend? crush? 'he likes me' guy?) 16th birthday. Snuck over to his place and brought him a mickey of tequila, which we drank supplemented with his parents liquor. Chilled with our feet in the hot tub for awhile. Talked.

As I was leaving (he got aggressive sexually with me shortly before) he asked for a kiss. So I kissed him.

I was mixed between being happy I had kissed him and scared cuz he was about ready to rape me - I needed to leave!

He could have become something more, but I was too messed up to handle something so "simple" as a guy who liked me.


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29 Dec 2009, 1:32 pm

LinnaeusCat wrote:
I was 13 or so. A boy in my neighborhood (we'd gone to day camp together) baked me some cookies and invited me to sit with him on his porch. A few cookies later, he shyly kissed me, then ran into his house leaving me with the cookies.

It was confusing but rather lovely. I think he was confused too.


that's SO CUTE!! !! it made me go "awwwwww!" :lol:



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29 Dec 2009, 6:22 pm

I was... 14, I think?
I was with my best friend (I had feelings for her, but I assumed she was straight and wouldn't feel the same about me even though we were very close) and some other friends at a friend's house for a sleepover. They were watching Ratatouille on a big HDTV and I was laying in my sleeping bag away from the group, next to her. We were sort of watching but didn't care too much...
She got up close to me (I was laying on my back) and gave me a quick, short kiss on the lips. It was completely unexpected, but it was probably one of the best moments in my life. I was stunned for a few minutes and continued to lay there while she giggled and went back to watching the movie. :P

We're still together and I hope we can stay that way for a long time :)