What was your first kiss like?
You will eventually get used to it if you expose yourself enough to certain social situations.
Those sound like valid reasons.
I prefer spending time with people who have above-average intelligence, a broad range of interests and a very open mind. With that kind of people, I can discuss pretty much any topic freely. They're hard to find, though, but it's nevertheless worth finding such people.
You shouldn't look for specific cliques, clubs or groups of people but rather for individuals with similar interests and/or similar perspectives. If you focus on groups of people rather than individuals, you'll never really get a strong connection with anyone.....
Inaccurate as to the reason, but correct in that the continued discussion regarding the use of illegal drugs is not appropriate - especially where children are able to access that conversation.
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Inaccurate as to the reason, but correct in that the continued discussion regarding the use of illegal drugs is not appropriate - especially where children are able to access that conversation.
So you're succumbing to the fears of less openminded people (which may include yourself)... After all, children would only benefit from honest information (including both pros and cons) about topics like drugs before they get old enough to hang out with "bad friends" and smoke pot behind your back. Why do you insist on hiding information from children when that information will be useful for them when they get to make certain choices later in life? You make it appear as if I'm some kind of street cocaine peddler or something while I'm just suggesting a fair and honest debate on topics like drugs.
I believe it is habitually addictive, rather than chemically addictive. For example- if you take it to go to parties you will get to the point you can't go to a party without taking it. You crave it so you can enjoy the party. If you stopped going to parties then there would be little desire to take it.
It can also cause synaesthesia ("seeing" sound, "hearing" colour, etc). Seems that any you buy off the street should not be enough for an overdose.
I believe the biggest risk is taking it for the first time. You experience things differently and if you are not expecting it you can panic. If one were to try the drug then it would be a good idea to expect to see funky things and feel different and just "let go" and accept it.
This question was pleasing, I had a reason to look up wikipedia!
I would personally never suggest LSD as a party-drug anyway...
Obviously...
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My first kiss was actually on my second date or so -- the first date, which was semi-chaperoned, she had groped me you-know-where, and this was finally our first time alone together since then. I picked her up in my parents car, and we had our moment.
The kiss itself was awkward -- I didn't know what I was doing, wasn't good at it, and I don't think she was either, despite having more experience than me. More exciting was that I was finally getting a kiss, and that I was being groped (again). In retrospect it wasn't nearly as romantic or good as other first kisses with other people, but it was still very nice and memorable in a carnal, "I never did this before" kind of way. And given the kind of suffering and self-doubt I had been plagued with (and sadly would be revisited by years later), it was a nice affirmation of myself as a valid person in this world and someone who might actually be liked by the opposite sex.
That the way I view it, anyways.
You're 30 and you've never even "tongued" a girl?!?
That's right.
Tonguing sucks, kissing is much more passionate and enjoyable.
I've tried a couple of times. It's weird, and uncomfortable. I'm not sure how exactly it's supposed to be done, but it wasn't like anything i;ve seen or read about. :/
I was 13 or so. A boy in my neighborhood (we'd gone to day camp together) baked me some cookies and invited me to sit with him on his porch. A few cookies later, he shyly kissed me, then ran into his house leaving me with the cookies.
It was confusing but rather lovely. I think he was confused too.
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I was 17 (old for my crowd, very old) and it was my friends (best friend? crush? 'he likes me' guy?) 16th birthday. Snuck over to his place and brought him a mickey of tequila, which we drank supplemented with his parents liquor. Chilled with our feet in the hot tub for awhile. Talked.
As I was leaving (he got aggressive sexually with me shortly before) he asked for a kiss. So I kissed him.
I was mixed between being happy I had kissed him and scared cuz he was about ready to rape me - I needed to leave!
He could have become something more, but I was too messed up to handle something so "simple" as a guy who liked me.
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It was confusing but rather lovely. I think he was confused too.
that's SO CUTE!! !! it made me go "awwwwww!"
I was... 14, I think?
I was with my best friend (I had feelings for her, but I assumed she was straight and wouldn't feel the same about me even though we were very close) and some other friends at a friend's house for a sleepover. They were watching Ratatouille on a big HDTV and I was laying in my sleeping bag away from the group, next to her. We were sort of watching but didn't care too much...
She got up close to me (I was laying on my back) and gave me a quick, short kiss on the lips. It was completely unexpected, but it was probably one of the best moments in my life. I was stunned for a few minutes and continued to lay there while she giggled and went back to watching the movie.
We're still together and I hope we can stay that way for a long time
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