Keeno wrote:
I see a lot of people here and on the love-shy forum discussing the virtues of relationships with, men or women of certain types of nationality.
I don't know why but I find that unless a woman is of any of certain nationalities, I find I cannot develop any sexual or romantic desire for them. Any relationship with them, therefore, I'd have a desire for only a platonic friendship. It's only with certain nationalities I'd have a desire or urge for romance or a sexual relationship in addition.
It isn't even a race thing, it's a nationality thing. It's also not a judgmental or exclusionary thing, simply a matter of what I'm innately attracted to and turned on by, and what I'm not.
How can you say it's NOT a judgmental thing? It is. That's like saying, "Oh, I prefer someone by certain colors of skin, or certain nationalities, or anything else." You *could* develop sexual or romantic desire if you wanted to and all. You choose not to do so, and that's your choice. I respect that.
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