Taupey
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28 Jul 2010, 10:21 am
28 Jul 2010, 12:44 pm
Your bolshy slovos are well obliged miss.
My issue is that I honestly think that the older and more mature I get the less the women want to play full contact. I'll say again: I need a lot of contact to thrive as a person. That doesn't mean I'll force it from you but your obligation to me, primarily, is to be my pillow.
Most women shy away from that, not knowing that those rights are extended and enhanced to her, a priori and thus will be exercised on a regular basis. Nowadays, the modern grown girl is soothing egos so much on the job that when she comes home, for the most part, SHE wants to be comforted. And I'm happy to do it.
But ladies, IMO, your role is to nurture us. Simple as that. If we come from you, your responsibility to us doesn't stop when the hand stops rocking the cradle.
29 Jul 2010, 1:21 am
Taupey
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29 Jul 2010, 9:04 am
Your bolshy slovos are well obliged miss.
What does that mean?
Most women shy away from that, not knowing that those rights are extended and enhanced to her, a priori and thus will be exercised on a regular basis. Nowadays, the modern grown girl is soothing egos so much on the job that when she comes home, for the most part, SHE wants to be comforted. And I'm happy to do it.
But ladies, IMO, your role is to nurture us. Simple as that. If we come from you, your responsibility to us doesn't stop when the hand stops rocking the cradle.
So far you sound very traditional and have stated some of what you expect from a mate. But what all can a mate expect from you?
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29 Jul 2010, 9:07 am
It did for me, I hope it does for you as well.
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29 Jul 2010, 3:53 pm
It did for me, I hope it does for you as well.
Same here! I had to shake hands with someone today, and was surprised at how icky it felt. The strong urge to wash my hands was overpowering. And yet, my SO can touch me anytime, and I don't get that reaction at all. Maybe it's overwhelming sensory processing of the perceived input of new information, that is so distressing.
29 Jul 2010, 4:04 pm
Sometimes holding hands would be uncomfortable. Maybe it had something to do with how tense I was feeling at the time. I couldn't date someone who wouldn't let me cuddle and shower them with kisses and love. 
29 Jul 2010, 4:07 pm
I, for one, CRAVE touch. Not just sex, but I need a lot of touch. I didn't get a lot of it growing up but the stuff I got was high impact, highly emotional stuff. For me, going forward, I need a lot of low intensity, high frequency touching.
I want to be petted. I want my woman to pet me and I want to pet her right back. We don't have to have sex but any female who is with me needs to know that I will just slide up behind you while you are cooking and grope you gently for a moment and then slink off back to what the hell I was doing, usually with a tender little kiss on the neck or the cheek goodbye.
I do this often. I don't think I'm a freak for this and yet so many women I've been with are so damned cold outside of the bedroom and then damned one dimensional in bed that it makes it hard to do things.
The thought of being considered a living vibrator by my mate scares me to death, honestly. I don't want my lover to be my condom, hence, I CANNOT tolerate her treating me as her vibrator.
But I still need touch. I want a woman who is so needy for touch that 12 hugs a day to her seems like childs play.
Any takers? ;D
Oooooo, oooooo, pick meeeeeeeeeeee! Lol XD
No really, I wouldn't mind this at all. Granted, I have my moments where I wouldn't want cuddles like if I'm pissed or something but that would be really obvious to tell. I don't mask emotions well. D:
29 Jul 2010, 5:43 pm
If it's coming from someone I'm not familiar with, or don't want touching me, being touched can really give me the creeps. I think it's just a sort of hypersensitivity, but it goes the other way when I'm with someone I like. From what I know about relationships touch can have a massive impact on me, in a very VERY good way.
I end up where I just want my partner's hands sliding across my skin, and to be holding them close. One of the more specific things I've noticed is that cooking and cuddling can go really well together. (Seriously... That's one of the best ways to get me to help out in the kitchen.)
I'm not even sure what I'm saying anymore... Huh? 
29 Jul 2010, 10:02 pm
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