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RightGalaxy
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13 Mar 2010, 7:15 am

When I was a young adult and saw a repulsive, unkempt man, usually morbidly obese as well, I'd imagine having sex with him and get really grossed out. There was a Korean comedienne
who mentioned this in one of her stand-up shows. I can't remember her name. Margaret Somebody? I was really shocked when she mentioned it.



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13 Mar 2010, 8:15 am

I used to suffer from some crap like this when I was a bit younger. When I looked at people I'd have random ideas of doing things to them. Anything from licking their hair to punching them in the face. Sometimes really whacked out s**t like taking my lock knife and cutting hieroglyphs in their skin. I HATED it. But I rarely have it any more, thankfully.


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13 Mar 2010, 8:50 am

MikeyPikey92 wrote:
For my friends and close family this isn't really a problem, but nearly everyone else I talk to I can't help but imagine myself kissing them. I don't do it because I think it would be pleasurable, quite the contrary. It is often when I'm talking to more formal or important people like....teachers, elders, authority figures, etc. It doesn't matter how ugly they are, if they are men/women, (i'm not a homosexual,) if they are related to me, etc....every time I look at their face and in their eyes I loose concentration of what they are saying and just imagine what would happen if I just jumped up and started kissing them!

Does anyone else have this problem?


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13 Mar 2010, 9:31 am

RightGalaxy wrote:
When I was a young adult and saw a repulsive, unkempt man, usually morbidly obese as well, I'd imagine having sex with him and get really grossed out.

Me too! To some degree. I think it's just curiosity. And I'm always curious about weird stuff. It is disgusting, especially when the image doesn't leave. I don't find them attractive, it just happens.



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13 Mar 2010, 5:56 pm

MissConstrue wrote:
I have the same thoughts only it isn't so much I want to kiss them but rather I imagine kissing them.

Does that make sense... :?


I don't want to kiss them. I only imagine myself kissing them as well. Usually it is the kind of people I would last want to kiss meaning that this is provoked not through pleasure but fear.



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13 Mar 2010, 5:58 pm

I was like that, when I was nine, and I ran around, kissing everybody on the school ground. :oops:


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