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15 Apr 2017, 9:31 pm

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25/Male/Washington here.

did you ever attend any of the seattle square pegs aspie meetups?


Never heard of them, but thanks for telling me about them lol! I'm on meetup. Too bad there's like no one at their events.


when they held them at the penthouse, they were quite crowded. Dox47 can tell you more about them.



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03 Jun 2017, 10:48 pm

Yay, I was so excited to find this thread. My name is Heather and I live in Portland, OR.


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03 Jun 2017, 11:01 pm

^^^^ hiya fellow NW aspie 8) welcome to WP :alien:



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04 Jun 2017, 2:20 pm

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^^^^ hiya fellow NW aspie 8) welcome to WP :alien:


Thanks, I'm happy to be here :D


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04 Jun 2017, 3:47 pm

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Yay, I was so excited to find this thread. My name is Heather and I live in Portland, OR.


Welcome to Wrong Planet from a fellow Portlander! :D


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31 Aug 2017, 12:13 pm

Anyone else in the PNW, mainly the Seattle / Puget Sound area experience the Seattle Freeze? It definitely exists. I'll take my cute dog for a walk at a beach park, he's very friendly and likes interacting with people. I have a shoulder strap with a large camera on it because I stop and take pictures of the sunset and stuff like that so I definitely fit in with the "artsy" crowd which is popular in the area. All that, and I'm the most outgoing person at the park. I've read articles about dogs being the best wingman and stuff like that and I'm completely ignored. If I stop and say Hi to someone or ask about their dog, they'll politely respond but that's it.



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01 Sep 2017, 2:59 am

believe it or not, there's a "Shelton freeze" as well. :|



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Anyone else in the PNW, mainly the Seattle / Puget Sound area experience the Seattle Freeze? It definitely exists. I'll take my cute dog for a walk at a beach park, he's very friendly and likes interacting with people. I have a shoulder strap with a large camera on it because I stop and take pictures of the sunset and stuff like that so I definitely fit in with the "artsy" crowd which is popular in the area. All that, and I'm the most outgoing person at the park. I've read articles about dogs being the best wingman and stuff like that and I'm completely ignored. If I stop and say Hi to someone or ask about their dog, they'll politely respond but that's it.


I don't know if it's Seattle or me, but I have to initiate conversations and hangouts with my friends close to 100% of the time. Only recently have a few exceptions emerged, and even then I do the majority of the initiating with them.



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Anyone else in the PNW, mainly the Seattle / Puget Sound area experience the Seattle Freeze? It definitely exists. I'll take my cute dog for a walk at a beach park, he's very friendly and likes interacting with people. I have a shoulder strap with a large camera on it because I stop and take pictures of the sunset and stuff like that so I definitely fit in with the "artsy" crowd which is popular in the area. All that, and I'm the most outgoing person at the park. I've read articles about dogs being the best wingman and stuff like that and I'm completely ignored. If I stop and say Hi to someone or ask about their dog, they'll politely respond but that's it.


I don't know if it's Seattle or me, but I have to initiate conversations and hangouts with my friends close to 100% of the time. Only recently have a few exceptions emerged, and even then I do the majority of the initiating with them.

Maybe it's a Washington thing. I've been reading articles on meeting people and interacting with people and there are a number of them that talk about a dog being the best wingman and stuff like that. If I'm the most outgoing person at a park, that's sad.

I mean, I think my dog's cute: https://www.eyeem.com/p/104008917



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06 Sep 2017, 3:06 am

Wow. The more I read, the more depressing things sound. Due to the techiness of the Seattle area, it seems there are about 144 single men per 100 single women.



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11 Sep 2017, 2:48 pm

Yeah, dogs are definitely a good way to get attention. I have fun and she gets people all over me, well, rather, her, in my neighborhood. But Seattle seems to be a weird place. I have a very outgoing NT friend who moved to San Francisco just to get away from the freeze.

Didn't know that about the men to women ratio. I'm lucky enough to have gotten a girlfriend recently myself.



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11 Sep 2017, 4:43 pm

It's just weird. Last fall I took a set of photography classes and there were about 3 - 4 women, all significantly older than I am and about 12+ guys. I took a class for bonsai trees this spring and there was only 1 older woman and the rest were guys. When I take my dog for walks, there are lots of other guys walking their dogs, but the only women you see are either significantly older or younger or with their husband/boyfriend. Last night I went to a photography event and there was only 1 woman with about a dozen guys.



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11 Sep 2017, 5:21 pm

supply and demand can be some cruel math. :|



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washington state 8)


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13 Sep 2017, 5:21 am

^^^yay another one :bounce:



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05 Jan 2018, 1:04 am

California.


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