Mental blocks

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I've noticed in my life that I have these serious mental blocks (certain fixations) that prevent me from enjoying life and make me come out as almost arrogant and prejudice. These mental blocks also make me very judgmental about people. For instance, I obsess over things at points to where they become problematic. To sum it up nicely, my mind plays games on me all the time.

Once example is that I am too afraid to date a party-hearty girl, on the basis of me finding it repulsive. Thing is is that I'm not quite shy and I have a problem talking to shy girls.

So, what do I do?

P.S. I thought this was better posting it here than in the "Love and Dating" category, since it's more open ended.

This is obsessive thinking, as you said. It's a core part of AS. If you feel you judge people more than you should you can try to process through your feelings and figure out why you do it but the obsessive thinking is very hard to control. You could try medication or supplements if you'd like to, exercise or Yoga could help as well.

I find myself doing the same thing, and it always involves something that someone's said, or done. I drop the vigillant act, eventually and forgive those people.