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alexptrans
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24 Jan 2011, 7:38 am

...it didn't really matter to you that they didn't love you back? And you were just happy loving them?



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24 Jan 2011, 8:06 am

Yes.


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24 Jan 2011, 8:07 am

idk. im not sure if that was the case. i hope not.



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24 Jan 2011, 8:10 am

Yes.

Shame they turned out to be an as*hole and a user.



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24 Jan 2011, 8:55 am

Hell no, there's no worse feeling than that in my opinion. I wouldn't want to waste my time.


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24 Jan 2011, 9:59 am

..... Yes. I was happy loving them when I was in the same state as her, and I was happy loving her when I had to move to Pennsylvania. I, however, was not happy loving her when she proclaimed her love for someone she only knew online, on youtube. I felt intrinsically betrayed then, because she knew I loved her. She knew it, and she even tried to love me back, she claimed. But she just couldn't. This happened last year, months January-June.

Technically, I've never had my first kiss or been in a romantic relationship. But I am going to live my life, and continue trudging on towards my goal of happiness in life. If I encounter someone romantically along the way, then that's what will happen. If my heart gets broken, so be it. I will never give up on happiness.


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24 Jan 2011, 10:00 am

Still do


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24 Jan 2011, 1:10 pm

"It's so hard lovin' someone who don't love you...can't get satisfaction..no matter what you do"

I went through a bit of hell on this one...cause I thought one day he'd somehow come around..it did not help that he led me on a bit..it goes to show how gullible I am...

My business partner claims to love me even though i can no longer be romantic with him...Hence his continuing to keep me around...I guess... :(



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24 Jan 2011, 1:25 pm

Yes . Long years. I was just happy he existed .....



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24 Jan 2011, 6:10 pm

I would have been ok with that...but he sorta took advantage of my feelings for him...and did not have any regard for the ways in which it hurt me..



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24 Jan 2011, 6:13 pm

No. Love is a two way street for me. Don't love me back? I'm gone. I won't waste my time.


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24 Jan 2011, 6:15 pm

Love needs to be from both directions for it to work.