[quote="Gingerbiscuit"]This question has probably been asked and answered before, but can anyone explain WHY eye contact is difficult for them?
For me, it's just this weird feeling I get when I make eye contact for more than about half a second. It's not that something is distracting me, or that I feel threatened, or any other remotely tangible reason, it simply feels unnatural. I can force myself to make any amount of eye contact (I usually try to reciprocate the other person, or go for 60-70% eye contact if it's a girl I fancy), but it's definitely a conscious effort. If I'm talking to my family, best friend, or anyone I'm pretty comfortable with, I'll make eye contact maybe 10% of the time while speaking, and 20% while listening.
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