Verdandi wrote:
I hated, absolutely hated words like "tummy" or "owie" or other informal cutesy terms. I'd always go for what I perceived to be more technically accurate. Per reports, I did use some, but at some point I know I hated and avoided them. I refused to use "mommy" or "daddy" at a young age and stuck with "mom" and "dad" instead.
Hear, hear. I hated baby talk as a child and still do now. If you treat someone as an adult, they'll get there faster, in my opinion. I never got along with people my own age until my late teens, always finding retirement-age people the easiest to speak to.
Verdandi wrote:
My writing can be pedantic. I try to be thorough and explain in as many details as seems necessary to me to make my point. I use words that I'm told indicate I'm showing off, but it's reflexive and I don't really invest that much emotion in the particular words I use. I have a lot of trouble just directly saying what I want to say. Or rather, what others would say is direct. To me, it all seems pretty necessary to make my point.
Again, very much in agreement on this. I rarely take the time to write something short and would rather over-explain a point and use several examples than leave any ambiguity. One of the things I am learning in this forum to which I am still quite new is that that is largely unnecessary because, for once, I feel like me and the people here are on the same wavelength.
It is very refreshing.