The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Relationships make your life great, not jobs. But a job can ruin your life - make you feel out of control in terms of your time or your ability to accomplish goals - but no job will make your life complete. It’s a myth mostly propagated by people who tell you to do what you love. Doing what you love will make you feel fulfilled. But you don’t need to get paid for it.
Have you been talking to those commie socialists again!! !!. This view can be very damaging especially for young men, even more for young aspie men.
What relationship come easy to men who are socially and financially and disadvantaged. In my experience, I don't know any woman who is dating a man who is socially and financially disadvantaged more then they are. It is even true in regards to height. An Aspie man may not be able to change his height or social kills by much but he can improve his wealth considerably and my have an advantage over NTs. Buddhism my try to teach you how to be happy but it ignores loneliness to some degree and offers no scientific solution.
So there are too choices .
You can continue the same way hoping that later years become easer as you acquire wisdom to compensate for the slowly dwindling resources to find love.
Or become a high status man
If convention wisdom brings love, then the old wouldn't suffer loneliness and isolation and neither would aspies.
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