emuman100 wrote:
HopeGrows wrote:
^And here's a perfect example of how y'all can't seem to help injecting your interpersonal dramas in every thread that comes along. This is supposed to be about light-hearted fun....who wants to wade through the same members' attempts to work every woman on WP?

Please note that I didn't contact a mod - I'm saying this directly to the people involved, and I'm trying to be specific about what I find annoying. If i cared about your personal lives, you could post a thread about them and I could read about them there. But since I don't care even a tiny bit about your personal lives, I don't enjoy finding this type of info in random threads.
I really don't understand what is so dramatic about that. To me, it was and example of light-hearted fun. I like both Grisha and all_white and feel their posts are very valuable to WP.
I've been thinking about this, and I'm going to write something more later, but the drama I was referring to is related to the interpersonal relationships of members. I don't care about who is crushing on who, who's using who, blah, blah, blah - so I'm not happy to find that information in a thread where it doesn't belong. What I hope we can both agree on, however, is that the value of any person depends on the standard of measure used - we're not all using the same measure, so we're not all going to get the same result. You're certainly free to like and value whomever you like - just don't expect those feelings to be shared universally, okay?
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