hyperlexian wrote:
MXH wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
MXH wrote:
Well, my only example was one of spark which went completely against how I thought falling for someone would be like.
what did the spark feel like? and how did you expect it to feel?
It was difficult to percieve. But I just had this immediate, unsatisfiable urge just to be near her. When near her I felt a small headache and light chested. I could feel my blood warm up on my neck and wrists.
that's such a beautiful sentiment. i was interested to know how it felt for you. for me, it was almost like a "fight-or-flight" feeling, sort of. that sounds bad as i wasn't afraid at all. just that the world *stopped* in a way..
My 2 cents on the feelings at the attraction moment, In my case it was a strong desire to talk to her as much as possible about subjects of mutual interest. She was a great conversationalist and we could talk for hours. Unfortunately, such was my desire to talk to her that I sometimes said things without a fully formed thought. Thankfully nothing disastrous was said, only things that seemed in retrospect to not quiet come across as I intended.
ICY wrote:
This is interesting given some of the, I’ll called it debatable, information and advice elsewhere on WP regarding men gaining the interest of women. Perhaps without a moment of strong mutual attraction, whatever methods a man attempts will at best have the odds heavily stacked against any success.
hyperlexian wrote:
i think it's different for each person - we are all unique.
Touché
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