It's a double edged sword thing but it's certainly something to at least think about. I know that right now, I have no desire to be extremely close with a girl and be with her every single day and having to be forced to talk to her all the time. With a f*** buddy, I can be with her once and not have to talk to her at all until perhaps a few days or weeks later if we both have the interest of getting together again. Yet, despite my not wanting to get extremely close to a girl, if I found one willing to do me, I'd probably end up getting attached to her anyways because of my lack of experience even though that's not the right thing to do with hook up. I'd probably be too appreciative. I realize that being a virgin for a hook up can also be risky. Being a virgin with a close girlfriend I understand would be the better way to go but these days finding an actual girlfriend is a lot more difficult. The way I see it, as it stands it's either a hook up or nothing.
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"The less I know about other people's affairs, the happier I am. I'm not interested in caring about people. I once worked with a guy for three years and never learned his name. The best friend I ever had. We still never talk sometimes."