Effeminate straight guys
I would say so, at least concerning the traditional view of feminity. I hate sports and cars. I'm quiet, not loud (except in debates). I used to play dolls and dress-up with my little sisters. I like 'girly' things like sewing, baking, reading, and nature. While I look very manly, I care about my appearence. I like cleanliness and can't stand being dirty. I get very emotional at times and cry at sad parts in movies or video games (not usually though). I'm very shy and passive (but again, not in debates). In relationships, I like it when the girl leads (haven't had one in a very long time though and probably won't have one anytime soon). I'm highly religious and care about saving my virginity for marriage. However, I hate shopping and fashion. Bleh. I think that's it.
I'm a woman and I am very attracted to effeminate men. The more effeminate, the better. Most women would end relationships with men who were crossdressers/MtFs and/or were bisexual. But those are qualities I would actively look for in a boyfriend were I ever to start searching for one.
i am a hetero male, have experimented to make sure, but feel like a woman. i like my masculinity, my form, and everything that comes with it. changing sexes isn't something i would ever consider. i attract a lot of gay men, but unfortunately have no interest in them. i attract lesbians who are fond of my femininity. i like to be submissive, but don't mind making a gal submit. the last relationship i was in lasted 3 years with a borderline tomboy who enjoyed being dominated and enjoyed a big strong man to hold her. she also enjoyed doing silly girly things like wearing uncomfortable clothing and coating her skin in powders to make herself 'beautiful'... hehe. but, when i admitted to her that i feel i've been a woman in my past life, she told me she felt she was a man in hers.
i'd love to hear all about your experiences with a similar situation. this is all kind of new to me...
Yes, I would probably call myself effeminate as well.
I do get mistaken for a girl every now and then, so it's in appearance as well as personality/interests. I definitely dont act very "manly" and tend to like cute things and flowers and stuff.
At the same time though, my interests arent like, super-focused on such things.... I also love computers and gaming and seeing monster trucks run over things, which is highly entertaining.
That people tend to get all BOTHERED by a male such as myself is really.... annoying. I dont really see what the big problem is.
That's how I feel as well, for both male and female bodied people who are outside of their gender norms. I don't see what the problem is.
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I love effeminate straight guys! Maybe because I am a tomboy and want a "girl" for a guy, not a girl girl. Although I am bisexual and like girls as well, I prefer males more. Especially boys that are not afraid to cry, are sensitive and emotional. They appear to be more gentleman than "macho men."
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DuneyBlues
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What's boring to someone isn't to someone else. I also would be considered boring because I hate bar, club, sports, cars, alcohol.
I know how hard it's to feel accepted and liked as a sensitive guy. Don't feel bad, pleeeease...
LOL I Love this subject. I think that a lot of masculine traits are programmed. Who got to make the rules about what men can act like or enjoy? That's BS! If I got to make the rules, there'd only be one mental sex who could do whatever the fook they wanted. There would be no expectations or limitations.
I 'm a woman and am glad I didn't have to be a man and be told that I couldn't like flowers, perfume, beauty etc or that I'd have to be a construction worker or football player. I love, desire and am attracted to effeminate men, but I am not an overly masculine woman aka pseudo dyke...lol. I look very feminine ( wear dresses, makeup, fix hair, shave legs and wouldn't be caught dead in Birkenstocks...wait...maybe if I actually was dead and someone put Birkenstocks on my feet, I'd be caught dead in them but that's the only way...lol) but there are *some* things about me that might be considered masculine.
I married a sexy metro man who has a strong feminine side and we both take care of our kids like a couple of lesbians. Our life is like a slumber party. We both like wine, and our favorite shopping places are Sephora, Teavana, etc. He's not feminine when a masculine trait is needed ( ie sex or protection ). I am the one who supports us.
Prior to being married, I was attracted mostly to gay guys. I was the world's biggest fag hag...lol, and dated some non op TG people. I emotionally love women but I prefer hetero sex. It was distressing to know these things about myself, but only because we are *programmed* to believe one thing over another for the sake of procreation. I think we've evolved enough where stereotypical male roles will someday become obsolete. My sibling is a M-F non op transgendered person who is completely passable. My oldest daughter identifies as being bi-sexual and also likes effeminate men. One of my younger daughters used to identify as being a male, but she has since decided that she is a girl. In our family, anyone can do anything and no one is restrained by gender roles. At that point, I am not sure there would be any transgendered people because people could just be how they are and a penis or vagina would be used for procreation and or enjoyment and not to define WHO a person is or can be.
I have more female friends (physically speaking) than male, tho masculine females are the only group that I have an attraction to for sexual relationships plus masculine females find me attractive.
Oh my god, I'm exactly the same, masculine girls, feeling like I'm a lesbian, not getting on well with men, mostly female friends, exclusively attracted to females and feminine things. I just very sadly made a list of famous girls I find attractive, Nicole Atkins, Greta Gerwig, Vicky McClure, Chanel Cresswell, Jaime Winstone, if you look at them all you'll notice they all have very boyish faces big cheeks and quite a large jaw, quite masculine women, though I wouldn't be attracted to a man with the same kind of facial features.
Interestingly I recently attended a fancy dress party dressed as Debbie Harry, the overriding comments I got were "Oh my god it's you, you look really good as a woman".
ScientistOfSound
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I have more female friends (physically speaking) than male, tho masculine females are the only group that I have an attraction to for sexual relationships plus masculine females find me attractive.
Tomboyish women, especially hot ones, are extremely attractive to me.
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