auntblabby
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07 Dec 2016, 6:25 pm
^^^why'd you distance yourself from him? 
08 Dec 2016, 1:35 am
He wasn't interested in me. It was best for me just to move on. Creating physical distance seemed the most sensible thing to do to get over him.
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08 Dec 2016, 1:41 am
He wasn't interested in me. It was best for me just to move on. Creating physical distance seemed the most sensible thing to do to get over him.
he is not the only fish in the sea. you can and will do better than him.
08 Dec 2016, 8:32 am
He wasn't interested in me. It was best for me just to move on. Creating physical distance seemed the most sensible thing to do to get over him.
he is not the only fish in the sea. you can and will do better than him.
No there isn't. There's no one left the pond. Don't get to be loved. Some people just don't get to find anyone.
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09 Dec 2016, 4:33 am
He wasn't interested in me. It was best for me just to move on. Creating physical distance seemed the most sensible thing to do to get over him.
he is not the only fish in the sea. you can and will do better than him.
No there isn't. There's no one left the pond. Don't get to be loved. Some people just don't get to find anyone.
I feel the same way, but I am thankful that the advantage I have is that I am relatively close to the exit [age] while you have a few more decades to try to figure it out. in the meantime, the best advice I ever got, was from ben franklin, "keep silent and as a fool be thought, rather than open one's mouth and remove all doubt." if you speak sparingly, you accomplish at least 3 good things- 1]set up an aura of irresistible mystery, 2]minimize the chances of putting foot-in-mouth, and 3]give yourself time to formulate on-point responses that have a minimum of faux pas in them. the beauty of this is it can be kept up indefinitely. just a thought from an old geezer
09 Dec 2016, 7:33 am
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auntblabby
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10 Dec 2016, 1:49 am
I get along better with myself and me, than I do with anybody else. 
10 Dec 2016, 7:12 am
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auntblabby
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11 Dec 2016, 3:06 am
you also!
11 Dec 2016, 9:22 am
auntblabby
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11 Dec 2016, 4:37 pm
mee too... 
12 Dec 2016, 4:31 am
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19 Dec 2016, 3:32 am
^ condolences, from another santa barbara county local. 
i miss the way i was before i was ravaged by the renegade canadian.
