SadAspy wrote:
MountZion wrote:
SadAspy wrote:
And I've seen women wear shirts saying "I love (heart) nerds," yet still date the alpha jocks/bad boys.
By that logic, every man that gets laid is an Alpha Jock/Bad Boy
You say that as if it's not true....yeah, okay, you can get laid without those qualities if you really compensate in looks or money, but for guys who can't, say hello to your hand.
Because it's not true. I know "Alpha Jocks/Bad Boys" who never get laid, and I also know broke nerds with no style who have girlfriends. They are not exceptions, it's too regular an occurrence for me to label them as such.
Confidence isn't just reserved for good-looking guys with cash. A lot of people have told me over the last few years that I am actually good-looking, as well as the numerous "talents" that I am alleged to have. Yet, I am still a virgin and have never even kissed a girl before. It is a psychological problem, and an irrational one at that, but one that I am aware of and I am working on it. I can already see the benefits.
But it is basically a myth that only "Alpha Jocks" (who aren't even alpha) get laid. The truth is, the guys who get laid the most are guys who are not defined by such labels and stereotypes. This is the one advantage I have......I am not labeled as any of those things. And the best part is......all the traits needed to be one of those guys who can do that, can be cultivated within all men. Yes. All men.
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