1O Reasons Women Date Jerks Instead Of Nice Guys !

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04 Oct 2011, 1:49 am

More fun to complain about them to your friends.

Guys who actually like you just aren't challenging or exciting.

When you do date nice guys, they turn into jerks anyway, so why not save time and go for the jerk in the first place?

You won't get as emotionally attached to a jerk, so you'll be more in control.

All the other women want them, so they must be worth having.

Affection means more when it comes from a guy who doesn't normally give it.

Guaranteed to cheat on you so someone else can endure his lack of lovemaking skills most of the time.

No need to feel guilty for abusing or deceiving them.

Jerks will actually tell you when they don't like what you're doing instead of getting mad about it six months later.

Looking for someone you can't trust, and won't care about too much, who will abuse you mentally and financially, but you don't know any lawyers.

please add more reasons to date a jerk!

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04 Oct 2011, 1:55 am

I have to give credit....I thought this would be a woman or white knight spouting the same old "nice guys are just pretending to be nice...bad boys are genuine" bs I've heard a million times.

Instead, this was actually pretty witty. Kudos.

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04 Oct 2011, 2:05 am

Both the guys I've loved (the ex-bf and the current guy) have been perceived by others as jerks, but really they're just misunderstood. Honestly, I think they're perceived as jerks because they have asperger traits. (The ex-bf is a classic case of AS). They're honest and principled, but in social situations people perceive them as arrogant and aloof. The current guy I love, he tends to "put his foot in it" a lot, thus alienating people, but his heart is always in the right place - in a better place than most people's.

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04 Oct 2011, 4:26 am

I know where you got that list from, OP.

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04 Oct 2011, 4:58 am

If you make me look like a jerk, I might get lucky :wink:

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04 Oct 2011, 6:14 am

9 out of 10 women are semi-ugly or average looking, so they want a guy that's a jerk just like them.

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04 Oct 2011, 6:39 am

Way to go Venger!

'No need to feel guilty for abusing or deceiving them. '

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04 Oct 2011, 6:44 am

Oh my god! You're being such a jerk! Take me now!

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04 Oct 2011, 6:57 am

Surfman wrote:

More fun to complain about them to your friends.

Guys who actually like you just aren't challenging or exciting.

When you do date nice guys, they turn into jerks anyway, so why not save time and go for the jerk in the first place?

You won't get as emotionally attached to a jerk, so you'll be more in control.

All the other women want them, so they must be worth having.

Affection means more when it comes from a guy who doesn't normally give it.

Guaranteed to cheat on you so someone else can endure his lack of lovemaking skills most of the time.

No need to feel guilty for abusing or deceiving them.

Jerks will actually tell you when they don't like what you're doing instead of getting mad about it six months later.

Looking for someone you can't trust, and won't care about too much, who will abuse you mentally and financially, but you don't know any lawyers.

please add more reasons to date a jerk!

I don't think women date jerks for a lot of those reasons. I've bolded the ones in question. I don't know if you're joking or not, I guess it went over my head.

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04 Oct 2011, 7:00 am

hale_bopp wrote:

I don't think women date jerks for a lot of those reasons. I've bolded the ones in question. I don't know if you're joking or not, I guess it went over my head.

he is joking, i hope.

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04 Oct 2011, 7:10 am

MXH wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

I don't think women date jerks for a lot of those reasons. I've bolded the ones in question. I don't know if you're joking or not, I guess it went over my head.

he is joking, i hope.

Resident NT here and he's being TOTALLY serious! Of course girls are thinking about whether the guy will have lawyers down the road to solve problems that every relationship has.

Detect the sarcasm? :wink:

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04 Oct 2011, 2:02 pm

emlion wrote:

Oh my god! You're being such a jerk! Take me now!

f**k off b***h, I'm a way bigger jerk then that dickhead is I mean look at my mean face and my past history of being violent to the women that I date!

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04 Oct 2011, 2:13 pm

DeanAdamFry wrote:

emlion wrote:

Oh my god! You're being such a jerk! Take me now!

f**k off b***h, I'm a way bigger jerk then that dickhead is I mean look at my mean face and my past history of being violent to the women that I date!

u so sexiii.

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04 Oct 2011, 2:14 pm

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04 Oct 2011, 2:15 pm

emlion wrote:

DeanAdamFry wrote:

emlion wrote:

Oh my god! You're being such a jerk! Take me now!

f**k off b***h, I'm a way bigger jerk then that dickhead is I mean look at my mean face and my past history of being violent to the women that I date!

u so sexiii.

Shut up b***h and service me!

Haha XD This is hilarious to do, I should try this in real life sometime XD

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