Am I doing more harm then good?
I agree, Momsparky. Naturally, you need labels to get any kind of help from the school, though. Unfairly, I think the schools try a little harder when your kid has a gifted label, and to me that is the main use for it. I notice that even the people who are supposed to know about these things will stereotype kids based on the autistic label. The gifted label helps a little bit to avoid some of that.
Otherwise, I think it is better just to treat the strengths and weaknesses by themselves.
Last edited by ASDMommyASDKid on 11 Dec 2011, 12:26 am, edited 1 time in total.
You might want to check out this site:
Social and Emotional Needs of the Gifted
In terms of sensitivities and social skills there is much in common between a profoundly gifted child and a kid on the spectrum.
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Aspie 176/200 NT 34/200 Very likely an Aspie
AQ 41
Not diagnosed, but the shoe fits
10 yo dd on the spectrum
Got it in one! This sums up my DS's preschool experience. He was often perplexed by the way other children behaved when he even aknowledged their existence.
What you said about never speaking to other children except when he wanted to ask the little girl to come to lunch with him struck me. My oldest brother is quite a bit like this. He is very intelligent and capable, an excellent computer engineer who holds a high position in his field BUT he speaks infrequently, always has, and when he does speak it is with a soft voice. He once told me that he only talks when there is something important to say. And when there is something important to say, he says it without hesitation and with complete confidence.
Your boy will go far, he's just on a different track!
Well. My mother-in-law picked him up today, so I didn't get a chance to speak to the teacher. He took his favorite book today (an atlas) and got up in front of the group sitting on the floor and read a bit (an amazing milestone). He says he talked to another child also. I wish I could have been a fly on the wall to see the actual interaction. Next week I'll be going to speak to the teacher again, she definitely said today was much better. In the past there has been some "warming up" after time but its as good as it ever gets. Hopefully this is just the start of some excellent progression.
If he can read that well and taught himself, he's probably hyperlexic. I hear the book When Babies Read is very good, although I have not received my copy yet to read it.
http://www.amazon.com/When-Babies-Read- ... 406&sr=8-2
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