Do female aspies have an easier life in society?

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Of course.
People are extra-nice to me and come up to me and hand me hundred-dollar bills, just because I am female.
I am the CEO of a major corporation. Another was more qualified, but when the selection panel saw that he was male and I was female, they decided that he should do all the work and I should get all the pay.
In school, teachers saw that I was a girl and gave me straight A+s.
No matter how rude I was to people, they just saw it as adorable girl behaviour. Now everyone puts up with all sorts of nonsense from me because they're simply dying to sleep with me. Little do they know that I am simply toying with their affections until a more alpha male comes along. I will friendzone most of them, because, as a female, all I care about is money and social status.
Should I ever be in danger of homelessness, all I need to do is bat my eyelashes at the nearest male and he will let me move into his 30-storey mansion.

I've always wished to be a man.

As a female, it's been easier for me as a woman. Getting men online was a lot easier because I was a woman and lot of men were interested in me. That was how I met my husband.

I have been treated with kids gloves and seen as cute.

Plus most men I met seemed to have accepted me.

Oh yeah I don't follow the female norm and I still don't get crap for it. I wear no make up, I don't style my hair, I don't keep up with fashion, I did not hang around with other teens as one doing gossip and talking about other guys and how cute they are,

There are advantages and disadvantages to being a female when it comes to being an aspie. It's not so simple as 'its always easier to be female' or 'its always easier to be male'.

Females are more likely to get away with being childish and it being 'cute'.

On the other hand, females are more likely to be taken advantage of and end up abused.
(Of course both of those can also be true for males, just more likely for females)

It's not just easier or harder for us.

Given the type of environment and the people around us, it would be both difficult to be male or female with an autism spectrum disorder. Life is a little easier for me because of the people I'm surrounded with. One, no one is defined by a label which took me a very long time to deal with but as long as I know what I have I'm fine. Nobody is forcing me into anything. They might ask me to be more social and I do try but I know I have my limits. It's just easier living here because I don't have that kind of pressure where people are forcing me to be more like them.
3 months ago it was a different story. And they'll be times when people think I'm weird and should be more like them.

On the plus side my adaptability and mimicry skills help me cope and that's something not always seen in males, then again my type of autism may be very different from a lot of peoples.

Females have a little more expected of them socialising-wise, but I'd rather be a female aspie then a male one since I think females arn't expected to become independent as quickly. In a word I think their is less expected in the "important areas" for women - job, housing, dating.

Yes , all women need to is look good and try not to be to expensive as hard as it sounds , how is a man supposed to respect you if all you do is take ,take and take some more .

That is all.

PS I forgot try not to nag to.

Hey, I just have a theory here, but it seems like a lot of the female ASers tend to be able to pass as sorta normal if they take up an odd individual sport sometime in their life and stick with it. I mean for example, for a female to like, become an Olympic weightlifter or something, you know? Some kinda weird sport like that. I don't think too many normal girls do such things, and it takes incredible drive to do it, and a lot of "obsession" with it.

Just a thought.