How many of you are on OKcupid?

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Wolfheart
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20 Sep 2012, 12:14 am

wtfid2 wrote:

how long do you guys usually talk to girls before asking them to hang out....with some girls i wait too long and they become disinterested..then i as others immediately and they call me a creep lol.

In the end it doesn't matter bc any first dates ive had , ive never gotten a second lol.

Get a decent conversation or two, get their number and ask for a date. Sounds tough but keep trying, that's why building an emotional connection is better than a physical one but online dating is so based on physical attraction that it makes it more difficult to build a connection based on personality.

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20 Sep 2012, 2:22 am

Wolfheart wrote:

wtfid2 wrote:

I agree with "decent conversation or two". If I chat for too long with a guy, I'll lose interest, but I don't want him to ask me out when all we have discussed is what we do for work and fun and not really gotten to the point where I can judge the person by the way they "talk", if that makes sense.

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20 Sep 2012, 3:09 am

some girls give me their number the first night which is a turn off lol..kinda desperate...these other two girls that are decent looking and seem cool ive been talking to for a few days. They are jewish as am i so have been a little busy. I had to lie and say i celebrated the holiday(im jewish as well). To be honest I am not very religious unless it involves presents lol.

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20 Sep 2012, 4:48 am

I'm on it but never met anyone on that site. Most women that view or even flirt me never respond to a message, or lose interest after a few messages. I had the best luck on POF (met 6 in person), met 2 on singlesnet, and one on DateHookup. DH seems pretty promising. It has good active forums including a disabiltiy forum. Already found a few aspie women in there. (but not local). I even had a few honest replies on Craigslist. But less than 1 out of 100 are real.

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