Here is photo of me...am I attractive , soso, cute, ugly?

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i have no idea. what is your point?

Ok so this woman from Thailand messaged me and we were chatting on plenty of fish for a while and she gave me her number. She said that she is interested in meeting me. So I proposed we meet up Saturday night and she said ok. She told me that she is not comfortable meeting at her apartment, so I told that it is alright and that we can hangout at a restaurant. She told me alright. So then I ask her for her address so that I can pick her up from there and to go somewhere to hangout...now she is completely ignoring me? Seriously...wtf? Even if she doesn't feel comfortable having me pick her up from her place...she could at least message me telling me where else I could pick her up..but nope...she just leaves me hanging. Why is almost every woman I meet like this?

i didn't mean you creeped her out before she messaged you in the first place, but if she specifically says she would not want to have you come over to her apartment, it is logical she would not want to give you her address. that was an error on your part, but now you know for next time.

I have to agree with Hyperlexian on this one.

"I don't want to meet at my home" is a polite way of saying "There's no way I'm giving you my address".

She may have had problems with stalkers in the past. You have to think about it from their point of view. She probably thinks you aren't respecting her wishes by suggesting that you come over there to pick her up. That isn't normal tbh, usually people off dating sites make their own way to a cafe or something in town.

But it doesn't matter, just don't do it again.

Ok well things surprisingly turned out alright. She lost contact with me because she needed to help her roommate with reconnecting the internet, which kept kicking them offline. She called me up on Skype earlier this evening and a date for sushi and sake is on for Saturday night. She seems interested in me as our chat went on for almost 2 hours. She told me that she likes me, but still want to see how date 1 goes before deciding to take things further. She also told me to text her tomorrow to say hello and ask her about her day. She told me she likes when guys show they care. This is a normal thing...but I guess she wants to make sure I don't just want sex...which isn't the case don't worry. I would like a steady girlfriend again to be honest. Anyway, I hope things go well...but we will see I guess.

That's an interesting one.
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your- ... ne-dating/

Lillypod was right when he said that most women view only a minority of men as good-looking.

But they're more likely to message the average ones.

Good luck, Alienboy! I hope it goes well!

Thanks everyone. I am happy about it, but it is ironic...because she is Asian haha.

and don't ever tell her about this thread, there's no need.

Also about the Asian thing.

You may just have the look a lot of Asian women like.

I know a guy who looks heaps like you and he's always pulling Asian chicks.