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I never said it was 2 people at the same time

Wow, I never knew that about Taj Mahal.
I guess archaeologists aren't allowed to investigate?

I had seen on news channel the Shiva Temple under the Taj Mahal.....

Similarly the Ayodhya Temple there is a mosque which was build at the birth spot of Lord Rama which created quite a controversy.

check this link

[youtube]http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-AtbEAvpEbI[/youtube]

I don't hope my message sounded like it was about sexual attraction. It wasn't
Because it's more like this:

I don't equate romantic with sexual interest.
My affection was platonic but romantic nonetheless because I would like him to be around me. In a metaphorical way he left a hole in my heart which I feel nobody could ever fill again. Not nearly and even similarly in any way. At least I still haven't found evidence of this to happen.
But you have to carry on anyway.


I don't have a doctor. But whomever I tell this, it is as you say, very embarassing. I do a lot of embarassing things because of my obsessions.

That's erotomanic behaviour which I experience,too. It's being delusional.
I'm either delusional about this thing in believing that someone loves me or I avoid people who I think would potentially fall in to this category. I have ups and downs so to speak.
I'm not good at keeping a middle ground. or just behaving normally.

I don't think I have ever had a completely innapropriate crush, (such as someone who showed me completely no interest ) I think every one I have ever had a crush on has "led me on" or hooked me in, in some way.

For example a couple of years ago there was a woman where I worked I really liked, and she used to flirt with me and go out for drinks with me, and she once went into hospital with a bad lung, and then wanted me to talk to her on the phone non stop and visit her (which I did) cause she was lonely in hospital. That really made me develop a bigger crush as I felt really needed. I have a thing about being needed though I'm not sure why, but that really hooked me in. However after she came out of hospital she dropped me and stopped being friendly with me. It would have to be something like that though, for example I wouldnt have developed a crush on someone i hadnt met just for how she looked or her nice smile or something as other aspies seem to.

Other aspie men though, ones that (trying to be honest not nasty) are more socially naive than me, seem to have those kind of crushes without even the leading on, such as on their college lecturer or their doctor. I think that for them, they get so little interaction with women (because of their social isolation) that any nice interaction, such as the doctor or teacher being caring or sympathetic, blows up in their minds and sends them crazy.

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Delusions are dangerous

I just start believing that what I am thinking is real and thats the eternal truth.

Its just recently i realised that i suffer from delusions.

I had this male friend on a graphic novels forum years ago, self believed aspie, very socially naive, Seattle USA.

He went in Subway every morning, and was served every time by a russian girl, who he became obsessed with, as she was the only pretty woman ever to give him nice smiles and chat to him.
He went on about how much he loved her and all his plans to ask her out.

Searching the internet, he looked for a website about Russian community in Seattle, and found pictures of her on the site with her real name and stories about her life. He posted these photos on the forum so we could all give him advice on how to make his move.

As far as i know he never did anything, just obsessed on how to ask her out and then got scared and stopped going to the shop. poor guy.

ugh...yeah, there's this one girl in one of my classes at my high school and I see her at random places and stuff...


She came up to me in the library (I looked down and didn't say anything),


Ever since I've been trying to get this annoying crush out of my head.



I heard her talking about this guy in class "He goes to my church!"

It was heartbreaking

I had crush on a boy in my college we used to talk on the phone he kept saying he loves another girl
but i was madly obsessed with him.
I couldnt concentrate during exams and would go roaming around the college just to get a glimpse of him
I failed my exams and instead of taking admission in any other college took admission in same college just to see him
Once the academic year reopened i went chasing him in the canteen
He lost his cool and screamed and gave me bad words.

After that there was this other guy whom i chased and who blasted me with bad words left and right.

And now this married guy who did give me a lead he used to call me back and meet me in class etc but didnt want to make the first move
or initiate anything once the classes got over he did not call me for long and when i called he was talking quite arrogantly

Do i need psychiatric help but like i said earlier its embarrassing.

Basically we dont get love from anywhere neither parents, neither friends, neither cousins its so lonely and cold out here.
and any little interest anyone shows makes us to crave having them in our life.
Even i have a bit of crush on my doctor who treats me for thyroid but i have managed to control that crush
I did have serious crush on my maths teacher though.....
how to get out of this madness

I am 20 years behind everyone in knowledge of social interaction what they learned at 13-14-15 I am learning at the age of 31-32-33
its just pathetic

My Mum is friends with this mad old lady neighbor she has known for years (they worked in Africa together) and the old lady has a crush on her doctor (who is also my doctor) and talks about him for hours.

I had to go to him a few weeks ago as I had a bad throat, and when I got back the mad lady was round. My mum said "he's just been to see your friend, Dr evans" and she said "what was he wearing" and I said, oh a grey suit and bowtie, and she said "ah his tuesday outfit i expect he looked lovely i wish i had seen him".

why do you call her MAD LADY???

well she talks to herself and is very eccentric.

I talk to myself too (i dont have anyone else to talk with) and eccentric yes i could be that too

You're definitely not the only one. I guess we just play the cards we're dealt. It does suck greatly.