Babies and kids crying!! !!>:(

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So not interested in there being a discussion of "welfare queens" in this thread about kid noises
one, because it's not a thing and I get tired of hearing it
two, because whether or not mommy has a job isn't a factor in children's voices being annoying or whatever when they do cry

1) I apologize for going off topic, but I was just clarifying some things about what happens over in the UK to SweetLeaf (whether we like them happening or not).

2) It wasn't purely about women. It takes 2 to tango, and I made it clear they aren't the only culprits. Plenty of welfare kings too. I respect your pride for women but you need to stop taking opportunities to highlight men as bashing them.

3) Bad parenting = bad noisy kids. And here there are a lot of bad parents, and a lot of noisy kids.

4) Now back to topic. Yes. It's really damn annoying, OP, you aren't alone

Doctor bills? Nah, all free. Dental plans, no need you can get free dental care with persistence. But for the sake of the topic, feel free to discuss this with me another day in another thread or in private

I don't think it's the kids' faults, but I do have a right to be annoyed by the damn crying and behaviour (I think?)

I had one of those noisy kids - she's only now starting to calm down, at 6yrs. She's on the spectrum, but we didn't know until she was about 5yrs. She has major sensory issues, which were probably the cause of most of the tantrums. I've always done my best to keep the disturbance to a minimum and would remove her from the place, if necessary. But people see the child having a tantrum, not the parent trying their hardest to deal with it. Please remember that not all parents are just allowing their kids to scream. Short of putting a gag on them, what can you do, except take them elsewhere.

BTW I'm not a welfare Mum

I know I never cried like that as a baby and a toddler. My mom even told me I never cried or threw fits. She said I was the best baby out of my 3 sisters! That's also when my mom thought I was "different".

So because I never did that stuff, it just frustrates me to hear other kids do it for no reason. AND YES they DO cry for NO REASON! my nieces and nephew do it all the time-_-

I'd rather hear someone being murdered than hear a kid screaming his head off like he's the one getting murdered...

Just glad I'm not completely alone.

^ I didn't cry at all either. My Mum says I was a dream child. But, my daughter is the complete opposite. She is crying for a reason, it just seems reasonless because it's difficult (or impossible) to determine.

I cried very loud as a baby. But they also said I was a quiet baby and only cried when I needed something. I threw my first tantrum at five months because my mother took too long to get to me when I needed her. She told me I was no longer crying and I was now screaming and my face was very red by the time she got to me.

Well lets just make it a law that babies aren't allowed in public at all anymore so that some people don't get annoyed. Forget the fact that the mother may have things she has to do and the only option is to take the kid with her. Forget the fact that some kids are louder and cry more than others. Forget completely about the mother who is trying her hardest to get something done with a screaming kid, cause thats not easy to do, lets just focus only on the fact that it's bothering someone else for a few minutes. Someone else who can walk away from it while the mother cannot.

Lets also forget the fact that the kid is obviously not very happy either.

Try and keep other people in mind during your next meltdown too ok? You don't want to annoy them.

Easier said than done, huh?

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