Men, Love and Physical Attraction towards Women

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I didn't even read the OP. Sorry etc.

I can think of a lot of things that I'd associate with attractiveness before heels. Psychologically and expressively femininity seems to go hand in hand with pensiveness. Also if you're looking for other things to wear that are 'hawt', get a pair of knee-high fashion boots or two for the winter, for summer I don't know - I'd figure the right platform slippers would get it done just as well.

It might sound weird, but I like shoes more than is normal. I collect trainers/sneakers and I like girls with good taste in shoes.
It has actually been the difference between a first and second date.

Does anyone else find that you don't actually have any sort of ideal at all? You can describe an example here and there of something, but there are a thousand alternatives that are just as appealing? Not just looks but personality too?

I'll say sometimes that I find women who dress casually or in male type of clothes appealing, but then ... I'll see a particular woman in a very feminine style and it works too? Like there are no rules that can possibly be described?

Also I would ask the same of women - is this true for you too?

Yes, edgewaters. There are ideal preferences I have but every now and again I see something completely different and satisfying

Hmmm, boots. Those are almost just like the ones I wear with my velvet dresses when I go out to the goth club (even though I haven't been in quite a while). If they have too much of a curve to the heel they look strange to me, but this shape for Victorian boots is very appealing to me, AND they provide some of the best ankle support I've ever had in a shoe. I can go quite a long time wearing those before the balls of my feet start to hurt. (They don't pass the easy-off-while-being-attacked test, though.)

I actually wrote this out for someone recently, so I'll just copy it here:
Funny story I heard once (I think from a comedian). A guy is talking about how he's having the worst day known to man. He wakes up late, the hot water runs out while he's taking a shower, his toast is burned, the car won't start, he spills his coffee, there's a surprise meeting at work, lunch tastes horrible, he has to work an extra hour after his shift, and the traffic takes him 4 times longer to get home than usual. He comes home, and there's his wife, sitting on the couch wearing a pair of sweatpants and one of his button down shirts, with her hair frazzled, watching TV - and it is the sexiest thing he has ever seen in the world.

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