I generally don't have problems with anyone (anymore). I get along fine with people and feel like I am accepted. However, I know from a co-worker who is on the borderline of the spectrum (ADHD with enough aspie traits to score positive on an online test) that people do talk about me behind my back about my numerous quirks. It hurts to know that, but no one bothers me so I guess I can't complain. I don't get invited to social gatherings too often (almost never by co-workers) and can't tell if that has to do with the age gap between me and those I work with, my dislike of alcohol and partying, or if they genuinely just tolerate me and don't really like me.
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Uncertain of diagnosis, either ADHD or Aspergers.
Aspie quiz: 143/200 AS, 81/200 NT; AQ 43; "eyes" 17/39, EQ/SQ 21/51 BAPQ: Autistic/BAP- You scored 92 aloof, 111 rigid and 103 pragmatic