It all devolves into the rent / job / transportation relationship. Very idiosyncratic. Once your necessities are configured, you can lock the door from the inside.
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ASQ: 45. RAADS-R: 229.
BAP: 132 aloof, 132 rigid, 104 pragmatic.
Aspie score: 173 / 200; NT score: 33 / 200.
EQ: 6.