Talking to NT Females stresses me out so much,

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That I find myself more absorbed in my obsessions, than usual. Every time that I talk to an NT Female, I find myself thinking about London's Ex-Routemasters, if that particular woman doesn't try to understand my Accent or the inner feelings that I'm trying to express. I end up wondering, if I'm some freak of nature. Than I start thinking about Routemasters and everything else that has to do with London, after I go through such an ordeal with an NT woman. This is even more likely to happen to me, if the NT woman is younger and in her early to late 20s. Than I tell that particualr woman that I wish I was in London to try to sway her into feeling the loneliness that I'm feeling, deep down inside. It's almost like a Pity Party, but with too much anger in my heart for it to be a Pity Party. I have two questions.

1. Why do I do this?

2. Does anybody else turn to their obsessions, when they talk to NT Females in particular?

(Most) NT females actually understand me better than most other people, so I have an easier time talking to them (as a friend or acquaintance. I have no idea how to ask them out or pursue a relationship with any of them).

Maybe when we feel insecure(your thinking or feeling like the person thinks you are weird)causes so much internal stress,that your mind wonders to a soothing thought for you.....the comfort of your busses and London?

I think our thoughts about our interests are a kind of self soothing "stimming" when we feel stressed.
Seems normal to me.

Dealing with the bimbo types stresses me out, to the point that I don't want to deal with them, anymore. That witch was pretending to understand me, and she was repeating what she thought I was saying, to other people. If I would have stayed home, at my flat, instead of going on that Saturday Outing, I wouldn't have had to deal with her Bimbo Stupididty. The worst part, is that she's pregnant, and she's going to teach her child, everything that she knows about interacting with people who have accents and other strange Speech Patterns. I hate young NT females like that. I'd like to burn them at a stake.

I've found myself crying tears of frusteration, last night, because I just can't take that garbage, anymore. I'm very close to escaping to the Cloverdale Flea market, to buy a Routemaster, just because of that. It still makes good sense to me. London and Routemasters are my only answers to the social problems, that I encounter with young, mainstream North American NT women.

I have real bother with NT females, I often find them dull and aspiring to fulfil a stereotype. Most of my female friends have unusual interests but as the years go by as they get more pre-occupied with finding a mate they fall by the way side. I get on much better with guys, women just tease me and find me odd.

cockneyrebel, if you judge by the world's standards, WP is more-or-less a congrelamation of freaks.

Actually, if you read 'Solutions for adults with asperger's syndrome', then you'll see that they reckon its a coping method, aspie-style.

Hey, I quote star trek if I have nothing better to say.

I know how you feel CockneyRebel. I tend to go on about music theory to anyone i speak to, and usually they tell me something like "Let's talk about something else than that nerdy stuff you always go on about".
Theres this one girl, whos very talkative. Whenever there is more than 5 seconds of silence. She complains about me being silent.

Has anybody else experienced this "silence is no no" reaction from NT females?

I used to - but seeing as I had a habit of taking the mickey out of everything that moved and some things that didn't move if I had to break the silence - they soon learned their lesson.

One of our teachers once commented that 'The noise an individual makes is inversely proportional to their intelligence' or words to that effect. I grinned and altough I didn't laugh out loud, I showed that I was amused, if you know what I mean.

Priceless! That one made my day! Thank You!!

You're welcome. I don't think the teacher was entirely normal to be honest with you.

I hate NT females so i try NOT to talk to them and i suggest you do the same,cockney.

I haven't yet really done any dating because I have been more focussed on my work, however I imagine you are turning to your obsessions whenever you talk to NT girls because you feel insecure talking to them and want to turn to something you do feel secure with.

In answer to your second question, no I do not turn to my obsessions whenever I talk to an NT girl, in fact I usually get on very well with them.

- Chadders.