Nothing in common with women I like most?

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02 Sep 2012, 1:53 pm

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We don't need to go to extremes do we? He stated there was nothing in common, I merely think that you need to have some things in common in order for a relationship to work. Not being clones of each other of course.


But that was the point, not to go look for a clone.



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02 Sep 2012, 4:30 pm

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If the person is a mirror of you, then wouldn't that be boring? Difference is good.


some difference is good, nothing but difference might be tricky


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02 Sep 2012, 11:33 pm

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
Stalk wrote:
If the person is a mirror of you, then wouldn't that be boring? Difference is good.


some difference is good, nothing but difference might be tricky


Tricky no fatal error yes.



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03 Sep 2012, 4:40 am

Hey. Thanks everyone that replied!

This was helpful, and made me realize that I shouldn't be afraid to like a woman, even if we might not have very much in common.
My only issue is that there might not be much to talk about... but I don't talk that much anyway. Then again, I can talk a lot if it is with the right person.

The reason I ask is, because, sometimes I just get an intuitive feeling that a girl is good news. This is usually based around visual appearance, posture and personality...
And other stuff that I have fetishes for, i.e. girls with glasses. It might just be intuition though. For example, one of my biggest crushes happened the moment I heard the girl talk even though I hadn't seen her yet.
Sometimes the way a girl expresses her voice is enough for me to instantly fall in 'love.'
However, this sort of stuff tells me nothing about the girl's hobbies or interests, but makes me like her. That's why, thinking about it gives me a sort of mixed-feelings confusion.

If anyone has anymore input, I'd be glad to hear it! I didn't want to make the question sound too personal. (Too late!)
And I might be exaggerating with the whole 'nothing in common' thing.
:)


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