Asperger's and ridiculously high sex drive

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01 Sep 2016, 5:58 pm

Her father nipped the relationship in the bud, though :)



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01 Sep 2016, 6:00 pm

DAMN! :x



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01 Sep 2016, 6:08 pm

Yeah....I said the same thing....and much much more, then!

It could have turned into a real West Side Story sort of situation--except neither of our buildings had fire escapes.



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01 Sep 2016, 7:41 pm

have you kept up with her?



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02 Sep 2016, 12:54 am

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I've been pretty horny lately. Had some hookups before Pride weekend.. and some more on Pride weekend.. and some more since Pride weekend. This Summer has pretty been pretty epic in terms of quality hookups. It's as if I've been walking on water when it comes to the ease with which I've been hooking up with young hotties. The only downside to a high sex drive is that it can sometimes be a little time consuming when it's not a designated party weekend.. there are other things I should get done in life lol but I keep putting them off until someday when I don't feel like hooking up.


How in the world do you do this? I'm in the GSA club at my college, so I know who is gay, but I don't know how to approach them and ask for a hookup or whatever. The hell is your secret?


There are several factors at play here.

1) As mentioned, I do have superior social functioning to almost all on the spectrum. This is in large part due to the not-so-secret ways in which I've learned to treat my ASD that I've been sharing on these forums for a few years now. I'm also fairly intelligent, yes.. I suppose that doesn't hurt any - especially with being able to come up with just the right thing to say at the right moment, like any good salesman.

2) "Whether you think you can or you can't, you're right." - Henry Ford. Basically, I'm confident in my ability to do these things because I truly do believe I can. It's not a forced belief. It just is.

3) I'm a nice guy and, in general, people like me. That goes a long way whether first impressions or the compliments a friend makes about me in the presence of someone new.

4) I'm tall, decent looking, and quite physically fit at 6'2" 207lbs & 9.5%bf. Pride weekend I was also rocking a rainbow mohawk, my pretty epic beard, & a whole lot of party confidence. I also have a good suntan from spending more than 50 evenings at a nude beach. I look pretty good naked these days.

5) Hanging out at a nude beach, naked every time, makes one quite comfortable with themselves and their body. It's very liberating. It makes all social interactions easier, really. Once you hang out naked with a bunch of other naked people for a couple Summers regular "textile" conversations are a piece of cake.

6) Practice makes perfect.. I've done this so many times it's like taking candy from a baby. Seriously, there are a lot of times I'm offered sex and can't be bothered because I'd rather sleep, or go kiteboarding or w/e. Also, as with anything, the more you do it the better you get at it.. and I know I'm good at.. certain things - which creates an automatic confidence.

7) Come to think of it, a couple occasions at parties over the last year and over Pride weekend are about the only times in my life I've gone through this whole process live in person. (and have done so with natural ease - well, almost natural.. drugs and alcohol were definitely involved both on my part and my partners'.) The vast majority of hookups have been via internet personal ads, gay dating/hookup websites and phone apps. Almost all of them, actually. This allows me to utilize my ability to communicate better via text than in person.. however, in person I'm ever better and in person "chemically enhanced" I'm probably better than email. Perhaps someday I'll be just as smooth stone sober.


While it's fun when I feel like it, just like everyone else.. everyone wants what they can't have. I'd trade this life for a bf I was really into who was mutually into me. That hasn't happened yet. All in due time, I suppose. In the meantime I have a crush on a boy I met at Pride who's in a long distance relationship that I'd like to date if I could.. and I'll probably just continue hooking up here and there as I please until there's a proper mutual thing with someone. Ah well, at least crushes are fun.


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02 Sep 2016, 8:27 am

I haven't seen her since that same year.

The last time I saw her, she stormed out of her apartment building screaming hysterically.



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03 Sep 2016, 4:22 am

^^^wow :o i'm sorry for you to have to have been a part of that.



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18 Feb 2017, 6:34 am

Chronos wrote:
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Hi All,

Just thought i would create this thread to see what other people feel and whatnot.
SO basically im a 19 year old guy with Apserger's. I'm also a virgin and I consider myself Bisexual with a tendancy towards attraction to men.

I was just wondering if people are in the same boat as me and have a stupidly high sex drive. I've had sexual urges since 9 years old (No joke) and begun masturbation around 13 years old. I read on a research paper that people with asperger's tend to have incredibly high testosterone levels partially due to exposure in the womb (i might be wrong). particulalry during the teen years, this is quite obvious for some. People think im just saying this to try and fit in with NT teenagers when it's actually the truth. Sorry for the explicity in this post.

Alex D

P.S is it normal to have this high a sex drive when you're still a virgin?


Being exposed to a high level of androgens in the womb would not result in a higher sex drive outside of the womb. The androgens your body produces outside of the womb would be responsible for a higher than average sex drive. It's not uncommon for females to being to undergo puberty around the age of nine...while they often don't start menstruating until the age of 12, it's not uncommon for their breast development to begin at the age of 9, so I would not be surprised if it were not uncommon for boys to get urges at that age.

It may be that your sex drive is not unusually high for a male your age, but you would have to discuss with other males your age to determine this.

that's how old i was when started masturbating,with a stuffed curious george & to a movie about tigers then sometime after that,i started masturbating to wild women.



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07 Jul 2017, 1:14 pm

AlexD wrote:
Hi All,

Just thought i would create this thread to see what other people feel and whatnot.
SO basically im a 19 year old guy with Apserger's. I'm also a virgin and I consider myself Bisexual with a tendancy towards attraction to men.

I was just wondering if people are in the same boat as me and have a stupidly high sex drive. I've had sexual urges since 9 years old (No joke) and begun masturbation around 13 years old. I read on a research paper that people with asperger's tend to have incredibly high testosterone levels partially due to exposure in the womb (i might be wrong). particulalry during the teen years, this is quite obvious for some. People think im just saying this to try and fit in with NT teenagers when it's actually the truth. Sorry for the explicity in this post.

Alex D

P.S is it normal to have this high a sex drive when you're still a virgin?


I have similar :mrgreen: