this is why i only get first dates

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That's pretty mature lol. Keep on getting on here calling women "b*****s" and calling out the few who like you.

thanks for the replies im lazy now so i will reply later ons. but just wanted to say that i once WAS told by an online friend that i looked like keanu..although when i mentioned that to someone irl she laughed at me(although she wasn't really nice).As for the personal training thing, I guess technically if i wanted to practice i could, but i just got some sh***y online cert that cheated on and never paid the money for them to mail it to me. I was just looking for something cheap to let me train people in my house...although never went and got fliers to find people so my occupation is student...although im slacking on that as well as i have to apply for grad school.Im not gonna act like i dont lie at all bc I do. unfortunately I have to lie to girls about my sexual history if I ever want that to change. Also girls won't date a guy if he as no job so i fudge that as well but im otherwise honest.

wolfheart I don't kiss the girls on the first date. I usually take the for a cup of coffee bc Ill be honest,i do not feel like paying for an expensive or even cheap meal when the girl will prob not like me anyway lol. Ironically my dates have lasted 2hours just sitting and talking. I do recall on my last ever date i was picking apart the paper straws come in...LOL.

To whoever asked how big the sample size is.....I rarely get girls in real life or online to actually meet me for a date. I've been on 3 first dates from pof that's it.

i didnt say b***h once in my post. I wasnt making fun of you when i said i think im photogenic. You said you are.

I have a bit of advice... If all you do is go to a coffee shop, they probably think you're boring, cheap, or both, and possibly other things depending on how the conversation goes. Take them to see a movie and possibly dinner. it doesn't have to be anything fancy necessarily, just ask where they'd like to eat. Try showing up with flowers; They tend to like that.

Also, a lot of your responses to the questions on OKcupid seem rather generic and mysterious... I think you should be more specific. If I were looking for a girl, and all the answers were just kinda playful, mysterious, generic BS, I'd most likely just move on. The more specific you are, the more likely you are to find what you're looking for.

Though I don't care about money and such, I know all my girlfriends do expect to see you give up a lot for the first date. If they think you are holding in some, they don't like it...It's sad but most girls are like this. I'm happy with coffee shoips and movies though I do think guys should pay though, but I'm not a feminist or anything, just traditional. If a girl wants a guy to pay AND be dominant, then that's weird in my opinion.

Though I don't care about money and such, I know all my girlfriends do expect to see you give up a lot for the first date. If they think you are holding in some, they don't like it...It's sad but most girls are like this. I'm happy with coffee shoips and movies though I do think guys should pay though, but I'm not a feminist or anything, just traditional. If a girl wants a guy to pay AND be dominant, then that's weird in my opinion.

Of course you gals like us to pay for the first date - especially when there's no second date. All those free meals must be nice...

I always pay for myself on the first date.
It's only fair.
Especially if you don't even know if you would be interested in seeing each other again.

Of course you gals like us to pay for the first date - especially when there's no second date. All those free meals must be nice...